Is for my boyfriend to truly understand me. We sit and talk for hours and he still can't see where I am coming from. I want him to see things from my point of view, see him get some emotions so I can see that he truly cares. But he is so calm and logical that it makes me frustrated. He doesn't understand that I'm lonely, that it hurts me when he doesn't try to call me even after I tell him I have to go see the doctor. Does he not care? It makes me feel inadequate, and unwanted. He will tell me that it's not true but actions speak louder than words, right?
When my best friend passed away last week I called him and I wanted him to desperately come and get me but he did nothing. I felt so alone, and under all the stress, I had a panic attack. I felt even worse afterwords because I felt so alone. I want him to show me he cares and to make all my insecurities vanish. I want the impossible because I can't see him doing anything. I see him trying to solve the problem like it's a computer issue. | |
You are waaaayyyyy too clingy. You're going to drive the nails into the relationship coffin all by yourself if you don't pull up your boot-straps and stop being so whiny. If you need to talk about stuff- go to a therapist. You're boyfriend is probably the same age as you- and you sound YOUNG. Don't expect someone else to SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS. Be a big girl! Be a confident girl. If you're feeling all panicky, and stressed out, go to the doctor. Perhaps they can put you on some medication for anxiety/depression- If you're lonely, hang out with your girlfriends. Have a "girls-night" out or sleep-over. Stop laying all your baggage on your boyfriend- you're going to push him away with that behavior! Trust me, there is nothing more attractive than a gal who has their shit together- and who isn't needy!
Do something. Go on- you can do it, all on your own!
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