LIFE SUCKS

You have to tell him, if he loves you it wont matter and the two of you will work it out. If he leaves you because of it then he does'nt love you anyway. Better to know now if he is a good man or not. Good luck

Look in to surrogacy in India, it's a lot cheaper than it is here and much faster than adoption.

First, you absolutely cannot enter into a marriage with this secret. Your husband must choose for himself his own path... If he decides to leave you, like you seem to be afraid he will, then it was meant to be. It's devestating to hear this information: definitely mourn the loss of the life you envisioned for youself. Once you're truly done, embrace the life God has planned for you. There is never a reason given immediately for why things happen... all will be revealed in time.

It's better to be barren and see if your fiance will accept this as is. Better than if you weren't barren, and were able to have a child with a man who'de otherwise wouldn't be with you if you weren't able to. Hypothetically speaking, why would you be afraid of a man who is presumed to love you leaving if he heard that you're barren? Imagine if you were capable of having children. Would this be the only thing you'de be afraid of telling him? A good marraige is one where both partners can be honest with each other without any fear of recoil or anything, and their spouse will go through with it regardless and accept things with the same amount of love and support they are always expected to show, both before and after the vows and revelations of secrets. If he walks out, then it's probably for the better.

Surrogacy in other countries is an option, and in the US will likely get cheaper over time. College fund is 18 years in the future, you can worry about that after. Adoption is also a great choice. But yeah you should tell your husband. You are still young, find someone new!

OK...so spending your entire life as a baby-factory is now out of the question. And you're 'loving' fiance is willing to throw the entire marriage because you can't get knocked up? OK...so, you got out of getting married to an asshole. And what's the problem now?

Get stoned.

So, you get to keep your body. You will have tons of time for yourself. You wont have to worry about gaining weight, having stretch marks, crying and unconsolable baby on your hip. You're husband distancing himself from you because he realizes he cant handle a kid after all even though he wanted you to have one and leaves all the responsibilty up to you to raise the baby. cheats on you because you are fat and have stretch marks from the pregnancy and may possibly leave you for the whore. Oh and dont forget the wonderful post pardom depression. Nice and big cherry on top! Meanwhile, your child pays for it all and its not even their fault. They are innocent in all of it. Worrying about your kid every minute of every day because of the spike in kidnappings and murder for whatever reason in the last decade. You cant let them out of your sight. Its not like it use to be when we were kids. Yeah, I feel so bad for you, let me tell you. I'm SURE you're thinking it wouldnt happen to you, but dont you think we all thought that? Consider this a possible blessing instead of a curse. Who cares what he thinks. If he leaves you then wonderful. At least you dont have to worry about impressing somebody 24/7 for the rest of your life. The way the world is today, we all are in for a very long haul.

YOOOOWCCCHH! I am 51 and very sensitive to aging rmkares (after all I feel very much younger). On the other hand-HOLY COW! How horrible. Very sorry for you. Dump her and establish that early in your marriage. (okay so maybe that is mean, but really, .)

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