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To Bad So Sad

Posted by ShutUpAndDeal at June 4, 2012
Tags: 2012 June  Philosophical

I read a few of the posts and almost everyone of the author was blaming it all their problems on some kind of "syndrome". I used to do the same. I cried because I was depressed. I took medications that didn't work. I attempted suicide once but I'm so fucking stupid it failed. At some point I realized that not everyone was put on this earth to be happy. Why? I struggled with that for a long time. Then it came to me; we are the contrast that gives meaning to the happy. If everyone were happy and well adjusted who would know, there would be nothing to compare it to. Itís only by seeing that they are better than you and me that they know they are happy. We are the black background that gives meaning to the colors and white space of the tapestry of our lives. So I learned my lesson. It doesnít help to whine and complain because I am the person I am meant to be. The fact that I hate everyday that I wake up and hope to hell that I am fat and out of shape enough that I do not survive my first heart attack, which could happen any day if GOD is merciful. I am now 52 and I came to understand all of this about 15 years ago. I explained this to my shrink and he had me committed for 13 weeks; which cost me my job, my wife and even my kids wouldn't speak to me by the time I got out. I walked into my ex-shrinks office, interrupting a session, said "fuck you" and walked out. Since then I have accepted my station in life and life is almost tolerable. I just had to learn to quit fighting it. I am who I was intended to be so there is no point complaining and fighting it.


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By broken at 10,Jun,12 16:02

Thats the single best post ever on this fucking site.

I agree with the OP but I seriously think he should try MDMA .. That shit will change your outlook overnight.
By anonymous at 10,Jun,12 19:22

OMG yes! Only the pure shit though. The dirty stuff will have you rolling your eyes back, grinding your teeth and you don't get to enjoy what a real trip on E is supposed to be like. God, I miss those days. :)
By anonymous at 10,Jun,12 19:24

And the music, the colors..... no words to describe.
By Owned at 11,Jun,12 04:07 Fold Up

You are the sorriest waste of bandwidth I've ever had the astonishment of experiencing. Do you know that professionals who deal with mental instability visit this site often to observe behaviour. Do you know that all these individuals who put their thoughts are being more honest then most judicial participants. We have found that those who can be honest benefit with the ability to find a solution to a problem they, as can be seen, are fully aware of.

You however are different, You don't realise you have a problem and so will not search for a way to remedy your problem. lucky for you the disgust that most people feel when you are around is enough to classify you as the lowest form trash that had the benefit of existing as nobody on the internet. Luckily if a natural disaster had to happen in your area and you happened to die then that would one less saddening aspect of the said disaster. If hell exist it awaits you and if it doesn't I'm pretty sure you'll live you soon.

So toughen the fuck up and get ready for a world of hate which is ten times worse the the she-man who slapped you and fucked like the disposable human you are.

or else you could just apologise and from now on realise that most of these people don't care much for your crap attempt at trolling. Apologise and make your life mean more then condom still stuck in your ass. Help people out. be nice. be human. Your negative comments are the most impact you may have on this world. and the worse they are the less we feel for you. Actually your just a piece of shit... I give you 7 days.

BTW. professionals have been observing your comments and you might have a self destructive personality disorder. If I gave you the true term for the disorder then you'd probably find the correct medication for it? You only deserve what I give... 7 Days
By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 20:15

To Owned: Your post makes no sense. MDMA was given to patients by professionals aka psychiatrists. Not sure what you're ranting about.

By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 02:47

"I realized that not everyone was put on this earth to be happy". This is the most profound and at the same time the saddest statement I have ever encountered in my life.

On another note, I wish your shrink dies. Shrinks are the filth of the world, they pretend they can fix other people's mental illnesses when they can't cure themselves. Most shrinks become shrinks to solve their own psychological disorders. Hint: "A sick person cannot heal another sick person".

Any shrink reading this, kill yourself. I'm just planting seeds. If I can get I shrink to commit suicide, my life will not be in vain. Never give these idiots your money unless you need medication. Never get psychotherapy. I stormed out of my 1st psychotherapy cession because my shrink was trying to give me advice my mom gives me. I went "I'm not paying you a 100 bucks so that you give me stupid advice". I stormed out of there and I refused to pay.

Shrinks die.
By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 11:39

Is the idiot up top that goes by the name of Owned, I was wondering is he's a shrink, sense his comments are all the same.

By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 09:24

So what you learned is to give up. You realized how hard it is to get happiness in this life and you just said fuck it I quit. Good luck with that. ps. "owned" try a new post you cant give the same answer to everyone. (dipshit)

By anonymous at 11,Jun,12 20:06

Idk about the whole mdma thing. If you havent done it then you shouldnt. I dont mean to be pessimistic but it gives you a "false" sense of happiness, or an excess of happiness and this dude is talking about the balance of life. Ive done mdma multiple times and I find that it just isnt as fulfilling as it once was. my outlook on the drug it self changed over night as one of the posters said. I am not going to lie though it did change my life and that is how i am now with my husband.
By anonymous at 12,Jun,12 02:07

You're right, it does. Not to mention coming down from the high makes you depressed. Not sure about pure though.

By anonymous at 12,Jun,12 18:20

Profoundly insightful post!

There is certainly enough supporting evidence for me on this site alone to support your claim that people know they're happy by comparing themselves to others who they feel are less happy than they are. Most people don't really care that you're struggling--in fact, they may even be relishing your struggles. There is not much point in complaining or fighting against what you are.

By anonymous at 14,Jun,12 00:44

You have begun to walk against the crowd instead of with them, good for you. systematic protocol is used rather than individualistic treatment methods, diagnosis is made or at times rather guessed. Acceptance on your part may be your new found cure. Good luck on your brave journey of this incidental thing we call life, enjoy as much as you can, we only have to die for it in he end anyway.

By anonymous at 07,Jul,12 17:57

This is for the anonymous 17 year old teenage dirtbag who called me causeless washed up loser on the life Sucks/ loneliness website. How cruel and despicable to say that to a depressed person on a depression website. Fuck you cunt. You ignorant fucker you don't know anything about depression and mental illness. So shut the fuck up. Get off the website and keep off you ignorant cruel heartless worthless piece of maggot infested shit. And FUCK YOU ASSHOLE.

By anonymous at 08,Jul,12 16:48

Just go away teenage dirtbag. Don't write to me again.

By anonymous at 09,Jul,12 21:26

lets stop this nasty stupid feud. I just want peace.

By anonymous at 10,Jul,12 20:13

miss teenager. Im sorry. Lets make up and be friends.

By anonymous at 01,Sep,12 08:45

And my final comment for all of you maggots who harassed me is FUCK YOU ASSHOLES.

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