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Posted by unmotivated at November 10, 2010
Tags: Attitude  Meaninglessness  2010 November

I don't have a sad story of terminally ill family or close loss, but I feel like I've lost myself. Has anyone felt like they are just drowning? I have become so unmotivated and so insecure in my abilities to do anything. I also can't stand the way I look. I've gained 20 lbs since I used to be good looking in high school. I feel like I peeked in high school and ever since my life just keeps going down that hill. My friends have become more distant. I graduated college 5 months ago and still can't bring myself to apply to any jobs because I don't feel I'm qualified for anything. My grandmother has told me I kind of disappointed her. I was sent a job posting 2 weeks ago by someone I knew and I might have a good chance at getting this job, but I'm so insecure with myself I never applied. As long as I don't tell anyone about it, it's like it never happened. Missed opportunities weigh heavy on me. Guess my life doesn't suck but it isn't fun right now.


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By anonymous at 21,Nov,10 19:38

The solution to your problems is simple. You need to gain some motivation. You say that your life peaked? I doubt it. Go to the gym, run, or start some kind of exercise routine. This will make you lose those 20 pounds, give you confidence, and make you feel better. You say you're distant with your friends? Make new ones by joining some kind of club. You say you're not qualified for any jobs? Get qualified, if that means more school, then so be it. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get off your fat ass. The world isn't going to give you anything, most people have to fight for what they get.


By B-Don at 22,Nov,10 16:00

I'm not like these other assholes who are gonna tell you what you need to do. I suggest you pray and hope God answers your prayers.
By anonymous at 22,Nov,10 19:34

You call someone an asshole in the first sentence then you suggest he prays to god in the second. You sir are a moron.


By anonymous at 23,Nov,10 06:03

You're only 5 months out of college. You may be suffering paralysis from fear. (I did at that time.) And you're probably over-estimating what is required for a lot of these jobs. Don't worry about 'missed opportunities', just start moving now. It's definitely not too late. It's a stressful time that you are going through but don't sweat it. Everyone fears rejection and failure. That's normal. The trick is too take action in spite of it. If you try something and it doesn't work out, it's no big deal. Try something else. Just look at it as an adventure. No one, including me, really knows what in the hell we're doing here anyway. Good luck!


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