Well I'm 19 and about to go on a 2 year mission for my church in a month. But 2 weeks ago me and my friend realized that we were perfect for eachother. She and I both want to start dateing but at the same time don't want to because it will make it very hard for me to leave. I am also afraid that while I'm gone she will find someone else because I'm not there. That would crush me because I have been waiting and searching for her the one that makes me whole all of my life. | |
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1. Stay and date her: you might get her pregnant or not. But, you guys will get into a relationship (married or not)
40% to 70% chance of breakup/divorce. Maybe you'll beat the odds. Oh, your family and friends from church will treat you differently.
2. missionary work: 2 years is a long time. You will likely loose her and become disillusioned at the Church. I doubt you have a real knowledge of your church anyway.
Do you even know your Church history and it's doctrines?
Or do you "know in your heart" or "have a testimony" because it's all you know.
By the way, I am atheist now. When I used to be religious... I was broke as hell.
I'd say... stay and get education and/or skills and get a good job first. cause no one will pay your bills... not your precious church and likely not your girl.
What da hell r u gonna do after the Mission... did you think about that?
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