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My life

Posted by anonymous at January 10, 2011
Tags: 2011 January  Relationship

I'm 29 years, married with 2 kids, so you think to yourself his life can't be that bad..wrong. My life sucks beyond words. I've been married now for 9 years to a women that I've known since middle school. She doesn't work and only recently started going to school. I've told her threw out the marriage that she has to work, but everytime she gets a job, she quits it within 2 weeks due to some lame ass excuse. I do all of the cooking,cleaning,laundry and work 40+ hours. I've wanted a divorce for several years but with having 2 kids its hard to leave so I'm stuck here. I've told her many times that she has to work and all her response is "I will". Yeah right. I see all of my friends that got married and their wife's work and they take vacations and own their houses. I live in an apartment and the only traveling we did was to michigan. I want what my friends got but never will have it cause of who I'm with. I doubt she will even last to graduation...that's the way she is. I'm unhappy with my life. I accomplished nothing and have nothing. I hate struggling all the time. I wish I never gotten married so young. That's a regret that I have to live with. Do you know how long its been since I had fun? I can't even remember. She wonders why I had an affair. About 4 years ago I had an affair with one of her friends and I felt great, like myself. I was going to leave my wife but then she said she was pregnant and so I stayed. Only for the child. When I was with the other women I was happy, complete, smiling. I guess that was the last time I was happy. Why me? Why does my lfe suck?


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By anonymous at 29,Jan,11 15:24

Hey, Wow, it sounds like you have a lot on your plate. Life is hard for some because of the way you deal with certain situations. You have to overcome problems with good. Your life sucks because you make bad choices. If you don't love your wife anymore, leave her and stop cheating. It just karma coming back to you, that's why your life sucks. Im not judging you, and saying that your a bad guy, because I don't think you are a bad guy. I think some of the choices u made could have been better. You should just tell your wife how you feel and then tell her, if she quits school and if she doesn't get a job soon and stick with it, you are going to leave her. Even if she gets pregnant again, if she doesn't stick to her word, leave her. She needs to stops grabbing then letting go. You need to stop cheating on your wife too. Your life will suck more. I hope you make the right decision and have a great life.
By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 00:11

I agree. Doing wrong does not make a bad situation better. You must commit yourself to taking the higher path.
By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 05:05 Fold Up

i agree. he should've divorced instead of cheating. but life sucks. its not just karma. and the guy cant just make things better. no ones magic. trust me bro. its not easy

By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 02:43

lol. You're an idiot. Like so many (stupid) humans, you shouldn't have had kids. They fuck up everything (lol).
By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 05:03

karmas gonna hit u hard bro. wait til u have 3 kids and a bad situation. you won't be lol'ing anymore
By anonymous at 31,Jan,11 00:35

Bro karma's ALREADY hit me hard! lol. Hard as shit. lol. Thing is though, as bad as life is for me, I just wouldn't want to subject a kid to that. Get it? Pretty damn easy (for me anyway) to understand THAT shit.

I got NO kids and a bad situation. lol. I don't need three kids to make it any worse than it already is. I understand that having kids would simply make it worse - for me AND the kid(s).

By anonymous at 01,Feb,11 08:59

who the fuck is karma
By anonymous at 01,Feb,11 13:05

it's a stupid fag who whoopyslaps stupid asses
By anonymous at 04,Feb,11 12:42 Fold Up

Hmmm if you hate kids you must hate yourself cuz ypu were once a kid. Don't blame children for an adult's stupid mistake

By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 04:07

if you think that its impossible to make things work, maybe you should consider divorce,divorces are very difficult for children but having parents who are in an unhappy marriage can be difficult as well. naturally, communication is vital.
By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 04:14

obviously this is a life changing decision which should be thought through carefully. what effect will this have on your lives. what are the outcomes in the short and long term,the negatives and positives. hope you figure things out.
By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 04:25

and you're still fairly young, don't waste valuable time

By at 30,Jan,11 09:21

fuck these idiots your life does suck and the fact you cheated is her dumb ass fault does she make you feel like a man or attractive fuck no she doesnt shes a lazy bitch and you did nthe right think and stayed for the kids im in the same boat kinda but not as trapped iu have two kids and all i look forward to is when im like 41 or 42 then iill be free to have fun
. fuck that bitch keep cheating

By at 30,Jan,11 13:33

C'mon man marry me xD I will do all the cooking and laundry! Just kiddin' ! Fuck her, get a divorce and don't mind the kids. No matter how hard it'll be you're still young and all the life is ahead of u. Be happy again, wish u all the best in achieving it.
You could still see your kids and help them financially.
By anonymous at 06,Feb,11 07:59

As long as you work I'll marry you LOL j/k. You know how long its been since I had sex. 2 months. I get so many excuses on why we can't have it so I have to take matters into my own hand (no pun intended) and when we do its not that good. I'm up early to clean cause I know she won't do it. I need a real woman.

By anonymous at 30,Jan,11 13:42

you can still do anything with your life. forget about the wife. focus on your future. create a career. set your path. then in five years you can divorce her and have the kids 50% of the time. just ignore her and focus on your success. you are young and you have time. it's not too late... yet

By anonymous at 31,Jan,11 01:17

Thank you. I will now understand not to get married young, I mean I am young, I've got my whole life ahead of me, and I see how easy it is to f*** it up. Wow. Thanks.

By the way, DUMP YOUR WIFE! Ask for custody over the kids, and move somewhere cheap but nice. Find someone else. Your still young! Find another woman, or you'll mess up your life forever! Please listen to me on this, please you are so much better than this. You CAN get a good accomplished girl.

By anonymous at 31,Jan,11 02:46

You are an awesome man who cares about his children. I bet things will get better in the future just do not GIVE UP YET

By anonymous at 01,Feb,11 01:21

well your stuck with your wife and kids, you grew up in a society that pressures you to love and have sex. your suffering the consequences for your sinful actions.

By anonymous at 01,Feb,11 09:25

I like u, I like how u survived throu all this, u deserve a medal srsly.
and don't believe those trolls' messages above, kids are the best thing that happens to one's life, you just have to know how to deal with them, it just requires a white emotional heart. and trust me, I survived throu those problems too, i dunno if it would help but I know it's gonna get better, just like it did for me

By anonymous at 04,Feb,11 12:48

Your kids will be happier seeing you happy. As far as lazy ass goes reality can give a good hard slap in the face trust me when she wakes up and no ones there to cook, clean, take care of the kids and pay bills she'll get up off that couch and you will do her a favor doin so. Everyone's entitled to mistakes

By anonymous at 02,May,12 19:29

You're a total loser. You're blaming all of your problems on your wife, but if your life sucks because you don't have enough money, take your lazy ass back to school, get educated, and get yourself a better-paying job. Don't blame your problems on your spouse. Man the fuck up and take responsibility for your own shit.

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