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All the wrong choices

Posted by Dan M at January 29, 2011
Tags: Family  2011 January  Job  Money  Relationship

This is why my life sucks. I got married at age 19 to my hischool sweetheart and had to kids with her. This was the love of my life. Sounds like a happy story right. Wrong during the whole marrige she never helped me, never cooked, rearly cleaned, and hardly ever worked. What she did do is repeatedly cheat on me and treat me and our children horribly. I put up with all of this to keep my family together only for her to break up the family anyway. Whats sad is that I still love her and although womwen seem to like me I cannot connect with any of them. My children are damaged from all of this and I don't know how to help them. Everyday I live a meaningless exsistance. I have a job I hate where I work with people I don't like and make just enough money to get by. I'm 41yrs old and feel my life may as well be over. The only joy I have is when my kids are doing okay wich is rearly. Unfortunatly they have issues as well. My children are biracial thier mother was black I am white not that its a bad thing but I see that they have a hard time with it and that also breaks my heart. My children live with me and rearly see thier mother. I get almost no help. I basicly live to take care of them. Every day I have to put on a fake smile Tell them everything is great and the relive the same crappy day over and over till I am lucky enough for It to be over.


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By anonymous at 26,Feb,11 11:47

hey man you got balls. you are a fucking man. you take care of those children, and no one can judge you. don't forget that. don't lose hope! work hard, wait for the right woman to come by, and be happy. just keep on smiling, alright!?

By anonymous at 26,Feb,11 14:15

damn chimp screwed ya over.

By anonymous at 26,Feb,11 14:45

u should be happy!
because u are one of the best fathers in the world.

By anonymous at 26,Feb,11 16:53

Sometimes the best you can do for your kids is just let them know you have their back. Life is hard for everybody but what makes it tolerable or even good at times is when you have other people to fall back on who can lift you up on your bad days. So just let them know that they have that, that you are all on a team together, no matter which way things goes or how life turns out for any of them, and that's the best gift that you can give. And maybe try to take more joy and fulfillment from the fact that you have *them*. I'm sure they would feel it. Just some suggestions.

By anonymous at 26,Feb,11 18:36

get over it, life sucks. women are trash men are trash.

By anonymous at 26,Feb,11 23:51

Like myself man you have to find the enjoyment in your child's eyes when it appears, tell them you love them always and you will bring brightness to their lives.Enjoy a freshly brewed coffee on a sun filled day.That's it, that's all it has to be!

By Buffee at 16,Apr,11 00:11

HHIS I suhold have thought of that!

By anonymous at 16,Nov,11 15:49

never should have married a stupid gorilla

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