My life sucks to a large degree, albiet it could be very much worse.......there is always worse for sure!
We moved to upstate NY so she could be the at home mom in our mid 40's and raise my first her 3rd child (her 2 from over 20 years ago). Well when we moved here it was on the premise that she be an at home mother, something she never got to do in her first marriage (#2 for both of us). We sold her place and paid for the remodel on my home up here leaving us with a 400 dollar house payment......pretty damn good huh!? Not really, the job network for what I do is pretty slim to sometimes up here so I've had to subsidize by going back south to work with my old employer on occasion. Well things have been tough for her with all this transition and for myself, but when I returned on the 24th of December discovered that she had an internet friend that has decided to help himself and redirect my wife's priorities to being on the internet exchanging some really hardcore sexual content, chat, photos, phone calls, money sent to him...everything short of actual sex and I'm not so sure of that. I got the chat, the phone calls, the photos of themselves......for 10 days I let them skirt me and confronted her lies...no use, then I had to literally show her the proof for admission, even after she swore on her father's grave she told me the truth......I did this 3 times total and unless I had, hard proof, she denies it. Now she wants to reconcile and be a mother and family again......after I served her with papers for custody.
My life sucks.........no job and probably child support because my proof will be inadmissible and the courts don't care about it, just if the child is taken care of....... yeah my life sucks!