YIKES, If I was I to tell you my entire story from the start they would have to build a brand new website. Let's just start from about 10 years ago when I met my current wife. I will try to make it as short as possible. Both of us have kids from previous relations and my wife and I were like a couple of teens together and, well you know (like rabbits). Well all of that and then some has been flushed down the crapper. 3 days after my wife and I were married we were in an attorneys office to file for full custody of my now 15 year old daughter because is a drug addict, promiscuous, neglects the kids, to much to list. The attorney retired 3 months later. Dealt with CPS because they did not want my kids around their bio mom because of her history (they were actually on my side). Then one year later my daughter decided she did not like step mom and wanted to go live with her bio mom again??? In the mean time found out that my kids had been molested and raped and only my wife knows all the details and I don't think I want to know. The individuals responsible have never been brought to justice or charged with the crime. Eventually one of my kids went to live with G'ma and the other with my wife and I so she was safe, we were sneaky and told CPS we were taking her out of school while mom was gone. To make matters worse a few later found out that my step daughter had been getting molested by her own dad, ARE YOU SERIOUS...We had written statements from the school, teachers, counselors, friends, family and somehow he was never charged and we are still forced, per the parenting plan, to send her over there for visitation. My wifes ex-husband is extremely verbally abusive but in this state you cannot be charged for verbal abuse and there is no way to prove it. Her ex-husband is a constant interference in our lives and loves to threaten my wife, "if you try to move I will throw you in jail". All the while my teen daughter is growing more to hate step mama for no real reason other than blaming us and not bio mom for her sisters being separated. My daughter still seems to place her real mom in the light of not doing anything wrong. My wife is disabled and can't do a whole bunch other than lay in the bed most of the time and lives by way of a certain social networking site (which I hate passionately, no names). We only live off the wife's SSI income and that's it. Two of our children have spent countless hours in counseling sessions to no avail. I have had too many jobs to count over the last six years and nothing seems to get better. Now, my teen daughter no longer lives with us and lives with my sister and hates me with a passion and definitely her step mom as well as her step sister. She does not even acknowledge having a younger brother and sister, both 6 & 7. As for our lives now, trainwreck is the only way to describe it. As I said before my teen daughter hates us, my wife and I bicker about the dumbest things, my step daughter thinks that I hate her and shows no respect. Our finances are destroyed and I have no job, I have lost friends and family members and my faith in God is almost completely gone. Oh, did I mention that I own my own business and have not generated dime one of profit. I couldn't find a job in this economy to save my life. I am beyond surprised my wife has not left me yet. My life sucks and I feel that 90% of this is all my fault and I don't know where to turn. I hate my life and I didn't even ask for this, where did I go wrong? | |
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