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Posted by anonymous at April 23, 2011
Tags: 2011 April  Relationship

The love of my life is the most miserable person I have ever met. I honestly hear daily of at least 10 things he hates. I say "yeah I know, you hate everything" and he says "but I don't hate YOU". 5 years and 3 kids, and I love him to peices, but he is so negative, and so down all the time. If its not his job, its his parents, and if its not his parents, its our sex life, and if its not our sex life, its his age. There is always SOMETHING he is unhappy with. I focus on the positive, and I try to stay chipper and keep his chin up. But there is one thing I have learned in the last 5 years...you cannot MAKE a person happy. They have to want to be happy. For some reason I think he takes comfort in his misery. I can't imagine why a person would want to live like that??? The other thing I have learned, is that no matter how positive you are, and how happy of a person you are, that darkness takes its toll and rubs off on you. I am perfectly miserable with my life, I wonder almost daily why people long for someone to share life with, and all the tedious day to day, self sacrificing that comes with family life. I mean, the last time I did something completely for myself???? I honestly have no idea. and then I realize that probably most people aren't sharing their life with someone who hates everything and is so self absorbed in all the things they hate, that they drain all the give you have in you trying to make themselves feel better. I just wish for him to see what life is like on the brighter side of things. What life can be like if you can take SOMETHING positive from every situation. Life is soooo great and so special. you only get one so why be miserable all the damn time? I wish I knew what to do for him because over the past couple years my happiness level has gone from plentiful to practically depleted. And I miss feeling happy so much. My mood is now so affected by his, that I can be happy all day, and have it ruined by one conversation with the person who should give me the HIGH point of my day. I want to help him, but despite what he says, I am starting to doubt that he wants to be helped. I think he will always find something negative to focus on. And that, right there, is making me awfully sad.


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By anonymous at 01,May,11 07:32

So either stay with him and be miserable or leave him and be miserable. Take your pick.
By anonymous at 02,May,11 20:15

nice coment ha ha ha , if u have nothing nice to say then don't.


By anonymous at 01,May,11 09:23

maybe he has low serotonin


By anonymous at 01,May,11 20:39

I feel the same way with my partner. The negativity, won't go away, i believe. You will get some comfort though, from achievements of your children and they will be better human beings just becuase you decided to stay and didnt quit your relationship.


By anonymous at 03,May,11 00:26

1. Your most likely fat and ugly thats why he hates you.
2. Trying giving him some pussy once and a while you selfish cunt and maybe he won't hate his sex life.
3. Your a typical stupid cunt whore like every other women i've ever met that's why we hate you.


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