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35 and wth is going on!?

Posted by pbens at May 3, 2011
Tags: Loneliness  2011 May  Relationship

I'm 35, my wife left me almost 6 years ago and haven't been with anyone since. I work to exhaustion during the week. On the weekends I put on a good face for my daughter but I'm just tired. All the women I've met are just disgusting to me either bad habits, no job, no ambition, neglect their kids, just not good people and I'm starting to think that I am too because I'm the only constant in the equation. Any free time I have I just want to sleep. My ex will accidentally text me something meant for whoever she's seeing and I'm sick to my stomach, I don't want her back but I don't understand why it makes me feel so bad!? I'm tired of feeling this way I have no friends or family to talk to and I don't know what to do anymor
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By anonymous at 11,May,11 01:12

I don't really think your life is that bad..you have a job, you have a child...and i can't believe every woman you have met in SIX years is a loser...that is mathmatically impossible..maybe you are just judging everyone by some ridiculous standard set by your ex wife...who clearly has moved on with her life and was probably never the angel you obviously think she was..
you sound bitter and not much fun and maybe that is why you are not attracting any good women..good luck to you..
By anonymous at 11,May,11 08:16

Also its much easier for a man to find a good woman than vice versa. It seems when people get out of relationships the man is the one to move on qucikly and find someone new, while its much more difficult for a women to find a quality man. Quality men are like diamonds in the desert. So the fact that you can find a woman to be with does make me think its you not them. Are you a really negative person, cheap or lazy?
By anonymous at 12,May,11 00:55

There are as many loser women out there as men, let's be serious and honest about that. I am in a similar situation, I am a down to earth decent human being. But I am afraid a lot (not all) of the women I have met in my time as a single man really fall short, and trust me my standards aren't god like.


By anonymous at 11,May,11 12:45

you want to rant to a real person who rants back and is bitter from a recent messy break up ? if yes then reply in the comments


By anonymous at 11,May,11 18:05

Change your number


By anonymous at 11,May,11 18:32

I don't understand why others have left negative comments for you. I can relate completely. Just keep moving forward and realize things will get better. Stop dating for a while and focus on yourself and your daughter. When you feel stronger and more on track, start reaching out to others again.
By anonymous at 13,May,11 06:54

uhhhhhh
'cause some of us have been single for years(8) and there is no end in sight.

Dates? Not even an encounter. i haven't gone on a date for
5 yrs. WORK, EAT, SLEEP (if possible), that' my reality 4evar. So that guy who can't stay with someone because she doesn't meet a level of "standard" is bogus and stupid. Enjoy life while you can 'cause it's a lonely cold fuckin' world out there. CANADIAN WOMEN ARE SNOBS! Canada does suck


By anonymous at 11,May,11 23:01

Fucking loser turd.


By anonymous at 12,May,11 18:55

You're probably looking for love in all the wrong places. Just never loose sight of how important you are in your daughters life.


By anonymous at 13,May,11 09:38

She's probably texting you like that to play mind games with you. It's a tactic that women use to try and punish men. There's most likely feelings that are still there from her. Text her back "Wrong Guy" if she does that again, and just keep moving forward with your own life. It wouldn't be surprising to see how much jealously she'd have when you move on with a new lady.


By anonymous at 13,May,11 19:44

Like I said before, this guy is looking for someone to pay half his child support and go half on dates. No fucking wonder why he's still single.


By anonymous at 13,May,11 22:12

I feel for you and think you're right when you say women you've met are disgusting neglecting their kids. They don't take proper care of their kids anymore but agree with the poster who said it's easier for a man to find another woman faster than a woman finding a man. Coming from a woman, it's hard as hell to hook up with a man these days, hell, it's almost a given not to find another man after divorce. Maybe you still have feelings for her and that's why you feel so bad when she texts you by mistake? For what it's worth, no woman texts by mistake, she knows your number like she knows his. I think she still wants you. Good luck.


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