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I am a sucker?

Posted by buster at June 5, 2011
Tags: 2011 June  Money

I have always tried to do the right thing for the most part. I thought buying a house was the right thing to do. So I did it and sold the 1st one(I was stoked because I made &30K on it--my 1st condo in 11/1999). I got a new job and the company relocated me and payed my closing cost so I put $35K down on a 4 br 3bth with 3/4 acre very close to downtown Atlanta. I poured money into to to fix it up--remodeled the kitchen, re landscaped, new 2 level deck, re-painted inside and out, new bathrooms, new flooring--its a nice home. I was proud and did the work myself mostly. New air conditioner and furnace--all kinds of stuff. I paid $165K put about $25K in it, fixing it. I borrowed some money and refinanced in '05. So now I owe $155K with a 1st and a second. I lost 3 jobs since March 2008 and fought back with 3 new jobs but had to move to DC at my expense. I just rent a room now, no kitchen, no closets, no cabinets, no space really for any of my belongings--and i leased out the house to cover the note. Now, today the property manager told me I could not sell the place for $120K-he is a realtor and knows the market in Atlanta. I thought it was worth at least $215K. So I have to face the music--I'm broke and 53 yrs old. The house would have sold for $275K to $280K in '2007. I have lost $300K in investment and equity, since 2005 i think. The bank treats me like a leaper--my life savings is almost gone--the investments I thought were solid (401k's, stock market, and housing) and the right thing to do are a joke. So there is the truth. Plus to top it off my mom just told me the other day I wasn't worth anything(my own mother, haha). I just suck it up and bite my tongue and not ask her for a penny--its true but now I don't want to even talk to my family--I haven't told them the whole story. Screw it. My parent lived in the era where you could payoff a home--so to them I am a failure. So f' it. I have 3 degrees, my parents do not have any degrees--they do not even respect me. I have all kind of skill and have been very successful--but now its evaporating--like the joke is one me. I never thought housing would fall off this way--it kinda tough. I really do not care so much--not like it just me---its everywhere. Truthfully I am better off than most--America is in big trouble. So now I just suck it up and try to figure out what to do next--but it scary as the decisions I thought were solid turned out to be a joke--(portfolio, what portfolio--know what I mean). I did what the experts said--diversify this and that.The good news is I do not care so much, have a good job, skills galore, options for the future, and can live in a trailer for all I care--its just not the American dream.


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By anonymous at 28,Jun,11 17:55

That really sucks, man. A lot of people in this country are screwed and going through what you are. It was the older baby boomers (60 - 65) did this to America. Their greed is placed upon the backs of entire generations after them. I tell young adults every day to not go to college since it is a scam and not worth it these days. Why build yourself up when all you get is massive debt and a Walmart job anyways with a degree?
By anonymous at 29,Jun,11 02:18

If you are lucky enough to get a job at Walmart with a degree. They often deny because you are overqualified.


By anonymous at 29,Jun,11 02:15

Save your money and distrust your government.
Oh Wait, you spent all your money and trusted your government.
Now that you're broke you will you join the Obamites and demand a handout?
The older baby boomers did not do this to America; That's a lie thrown around by the wallstreet-owned whores like Bush and Obama trying to get you to turn into socialists. That way everyone can be equally miserable... except the few at the top who print the money. Any government powerful enough to give you everything you want can take away everything you have. Seig Heil, sucker.


By anonymous at 30,Jun,11 18:49

You could become a hoarder in that one bedroom. Use up all the space buy piling all your stuff up to the ceiling. You don't even need to own a toilet as most hoarders poop in plastic bags and pile those up as well.


By at 01,Jul,11 02:33

My heart went out to you as I read your story. It seems that you did all the right things. I can't figure out what is going on with our economy either. It is most frustrating. I wish I could give you some advice. I do hope that your health is goo, as "they say" it is something that one cannot truly "buy". The only thing that I know about Real Estate is the old saying, "Location, Location, Location." I live in the area of San Jose, California where we are in the Cupertino School District and so far since all the Asians want their kids in the top school, the homes in this area sell normally within the same month with multiple offers. People out there say, "pursue your passion & you'll be successful. Could that alternative be a possible option for you? Just food for thought. I just stopped to say a prayer on your behalf that something really great would open up & help you financially. My heart goes out to you. I wish you well. Roz


By anonymous at 01,Jul,11 10:42

I think we're all suckers. I have a job making half what I used to make. I'm 1 month behind on my mortage. Don't blame yourself for your difficult situation. It is what it is. You do the best you can and when things are out of your control you just have to keep going and be strong. I am looking for a 2nd job, just doing what I can to survive. I know other good people who have been looking for work for 3 years. Hang in there.


By at 03,Jul,11 12:47

There is no stress like financial stress...sucks big time. But...what are you doing for your world. Have you picked up any garbage that someone else threw down lately? Not sure why you are maintaining a relationship with a mother who says such things. Forgive yourself and move on. What choice do you have. Get out there and volunteer.


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