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Posted by anonymous at January 30, 2010
Tags: January 2010  Loneliness

Have you guys ever felt like you need to always initiate a conversation with someone or else no one talks to you? It is fine having to initiate a conversation to get to know ppl but it is really annoying having to always be the first to break the ice and if i don't no one will come over and say hi. I look above average and i am not anti social but i am tired of having to always making the first move to talk to someone. Do you think there is anything wrong with me. I am not desperate or pushy when i talk to ppl. The only possible reason i could think of is maybe i look reserved when i am not talking so maybe no one wants talk to me first.


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By at 30,Jan,10 13:12

I am having the same problem in college, i've been to college since 2006 and i have yet found anybody to talk to. I try to keep on a normal face and smile when i need to, i try to dress nice and look my best before i go out and everyday i always think to myself 'what am i doing wrong?'

I was sitting in biology class, i sat at the very top becuase i just have this fear or phobia that someone's going to throw something at me if i sit at the bottom. (i prefer to stay up where i can see everybody instead of being behind all these kids. plus i was almost hit with a waterbottle at a high school game, so perhaps thats where the fear comes from). So, I always watch these students come into class and everytime they do, they either smile and shout at someone they know, either they are invited to sit with their friends or they come in WITH loads of people they already know. but for some reason, i always come in alone. And they all seem to sit in the MIDDLE of the room but here i was sitting at the very top, maybe that makes me look reserved But i thought to msyelf that maybe i should have put myself in the center to where they would have no choice but to talk to me and notice me. but then i thought how sad that would be that i would have to force myself to be seen.

I was standing out in the hallway getting ready for class to open becuase the teacher wasnt there. I stood smack-dab in the middle of all these groups who had friends to themselves. there were a gorup of girls right in front me, on both sides of me and further down. I just felt so alone and i thought, what in the world is wrong with me? why can't i have friends?

I was walking past the gameroom that my college has and i recognized a classmate who was inside playing pool with his buddies. i had realized that for the past 3 and a half years, i have NEVER been inside that room becuase i don't have friends and i am never invited.

There are times when i think to myself that things would be so much easier if i had this magic-create machine where i can sit down and design my buddies and then have them pop out of the machine and then we're ready to go. It's getting to the point where being alone makes me feel like i'm contagious or something. this has gone on for far too long.

So you see, its not just you and when you have the answer to this ridiculous problem, please tell me.

By at 31,Jan,10 03:52

Im having a similar problem thats bumming me out. I recently got arrested on a drug charge and was ordered to make 3 Narcotics/Alchoholics Anonymous meetings a week for 2 years. It seems like everone there decided not to like me as soon as i got there. Theyre about 9 or 10 of those white guys that try as hard as they can to be black, and 4 or 5 girls that act like stuck up little princesses. When I tried to initiate conversation with these people, they ignored me and laghed among each other like it was some kinda joke. its like a bunch of fuckin high school girls who had a little clique before you got there. The fucked up part is im court ordered to sit in a room with these idiots for three hours a night 3 nights a week, and they either ignore me, or cut me off when i try to talk. I guess the only solution i can come up with is that people are a bunch of assholes who make life out to be a highschool popularity contest. I swear im gonna go back to jail and just knock one of these wiggers teeth down there throat! All I can tell you is that the world is built for and run by stupid, ignorant sheeple,. and intelligent people like you are me are considered wierd cause we actually have our own opinions about things. Stay true to yourself, dont let em wear you down. What goes around, comes around. -JM

By anonymous at 31,Jan,10 14:24

Have you considered the fact - you are a loser who goes to websites to bitch nobody likes them, and if you got off the websites then you would have friends.
We make choices, some reading for you to help you college person.
Thomas Hobbes, "The Leviathan"
Daniel Dennett, "Freedom Evolves"
Richard Dawkins, "The Selfish Gene"
finally, forgot the author but, "Seven Habits of the Successful."

Oh PS, maybe people just don't want to talk and want some silence. Sorry the world is not all about you. Read the books above.
By anonymous at 11,Feb,10 00:56

Oh PS, your a FAG!
By anonymous at 01,Sep,11 05:16

Who wanted you're opinion then?
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Nice dime store psychiatry, loser.

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