I've done well in my life-I'm 25, I have a bachelors degree, I have a great job, a successful career, I bought a condo about a year ago, I'm in a great city, have good friends, but I feel all alone. I am away from my family who lives in a different city. The majority of my good friends are either in relationships or married. I have been single for way too long. Where is my somebody?
I pretend that I'm living the life and that I am totally fine, but I get so lonely living by myself. Sometimes it is ok, but on weekends where I have nothing planned, and all my friends have things planned, I get so down and I don't know what to do. I go to this really bad place where I get really sad. I want to get married, have kids, do that whole thing. Where is he?!? | |
First, be thankful for what you have right now. Yes, you may be lonely. But you have peace and financial stability. This is more than a lot of people have. And you have family, though they are in a different city. Why not take a drive to them on a weekend? (If they are within driving distance)
Wanting to get married and have a family is a good thing. However, it comes with sacrifice. If I were you, I would be careful about jumping in to anything. Once you find a guy, take it slow, and think long and hard about how pursuing a long-term relationship will change your life. (Believe me, it will change your life in a profound way... but only if you are wise will it be a positive change)
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