Well my family really dont know why i stay in my room all day long. They just think its because im LAZY. But im really not, the only reson i stay in my room is because eveery time i come out i get critisiced. My family knows that my feelings get hurt fast, but all they do is that. Only time i leave my room is to use the BATHROOM and the eat. Really and just at night when eveone is sleep. But the time i do come out my brothers just do it right in my face, like i cant hear thim or somthing, and my mom does it too. My dad dont do it as much but i regret coming out.All this and im just so young. My room is were i leave. This is were i do ever thing. I HATE MY LIFE!!!!! | |
Do you think if you have a heart-to-heart talk with your father about how you feel, he could and would be able to help the rest of your family members understand what the problem is and work for a better home environment for you all?
Are you still in school? If so, maybe you could talk with a trusted teacher or guidance counselor about this problem and they may be able to give you some advice.
Families can get into a rut with unhealthy types of behavior toward each other but if people want to improve their lives and change, they can.
Even if your family continues to be negative toward you, it's important that you find things you like to do and be with people who appreciate you for who you are, to counteract the negative messages you're getting from your family. Even having one good friend to talk with about life can make all the difference in the world and get you through hard times.
Also, be sure you are keeping up with your responsibilities at home and school and working toward some goals for your life. That may reduce the amount of criticism your family targets you with, if that has been part of the problem.
Remember, you won't have to live with your family forever. Some day, you will be able to pick and choose who you want to live with or spend time with and can leave behind those who cause you emotional pain, if you want.
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