hi everyone,
I and my girlfriend want to marry each other. We are in love for last 2.5 yrs. we are committed with each other and want to spend life together. My mom doesnt want this to happen. She is annoyed that why i selected my life partner myself?. She thinks it was something that was her job. okay fine in our society parents do this in most cases. Even then this duty wasn't fullfilled as i am above 30 yrs old. If she had to arrange my marriage, she cud do it 3, 4 yrs ago. anyways, now my life is like a hell. If she hears sms tone in my mobile, she thinks its her.. she start scoulding me. once she found out that my gf has given me a shirt as a gift that made my life hell. eventually i had to leave house cz i was unable to hear that mental torture. It was not enough. Whenever something like this happens. She threatens me that she will goto her house and insult and harm her family. She actually has done that many times over fone. Threatened her and abused her with every bad word in the world. I personally feel that my mom has made this an issue for her ego. I certainly can't think of leaving my gf nor she can even think of it. Earlier i used to think that my mom has some insecurities but i really don't think so. She even call my friends, my office and people that i know, telling every lie in the world that he is like this and he is like that and he is leaving house many times just for a girl. She never understands that her hyper attitude is the only reason that i have to leave house. The worst part is that my siblings dont have the courage to tell mom something that is right. I really dont wanted all these happenings.. i wanted that my mom shud have accepted my love.. my mom thinks every thing negatively and assumes things on her own. she is very hyper and egoistic. bottom line is that my life sucks at the moment. But i am an optimistic person, still hopes for better life ahead.
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she was going to disown her daughter if she married me.
so we were not going to get married.
But someone told me and her, this is our life and do what we wanted to do not what others wanted you to to.
and we did
we got married and lived 23 in a half years till my wife died of cancer.
I can say it was one of the best people i had been with in my life and i miss her yet so much. and to this day she still talks to me from the other side.
That is how close we were to each other.
so get married if it is what you want to do
do not let others run your life
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