I'm 50. dated a man for 7 years working side by side with him building for "our" future. we married over a year ago me thinking I have finally found my soul mate. he has an ex wife of whom he has been divorced from for almost 18 years. she is supposedly a Christian woman and sits in church every Sunday. 4 months after our wedding he just up and walks out filing for divorce and moves right in with her. I find out later he has been "seeing" her since day 3 after our wedding. for the next 10 months he begs and pleads for me to allow him to "get her settled" elsewhere so we can go on with our lives. there will never be any peace with her so close to us. he did and then he came home staying for 25 days before running off to be with her again. I just found out that ever since he has been back home they have involved their grown children in their scheming with one of them "buying" a house for their "mother". he wrote a large check to that child when this was done. it was him getting it for them only since we are still married it would have been marital property. his ex is so free with telling people what a whore, tramp, slut they are for sleeping with a married man (he was NOT married when we started dating) yet her that woman is doing just that. obviously marriage vows mean no more to her than they do to him yet she talks about others who do it like they are scum. my life sucks because I've worked hard all my life raising 3 kids by myself without help...fathers owe over $89,000 in child support to me that I can't seem to get the state to get off their duffs and collect..I get to the point in my life I meet this most (what I thought) wonderful man to share my life with and it turns out all I've done the last 8 1/2 years is help build a life for them and their golden years. when am I going to get to sit back and relax and finally enjoy mine? | |
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As for your husband, if he doesn't see your true value as a hardworking person and has such a fickle heart, don't let yourself be hurt by him ever again. You deserve better, and you should give your heart to someone who'll take better care of it.
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