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Posted by robbie at March 5, 2010
Tags: 2010 March  Philosophical

Would every one who comes on this site and has nothing but negative comments to say to people PLEASE stop? If someone thinks that their LIFE SUCKS ,for whatever reason that my be, let them vent about it without having to be ridiculed or made fun of, or worse, make them think that they brought it on their self. And maybe some people do bring it on themselves. But shoving it in their face is not the way to help. How about 'If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all.'

(the first paragraph is meant to be firm and the rest is meant to be informitive in the nicest possible way that can I can say it)

And for every one out there who belives that when someone is depressed or sad that they should just go to a movie or hang out with someone, that doesn't always (usually) work. When someone has depression it can be from losing someone, or work problems, or other stuff. It may also be that they have a chemical imbalance in their brain. Unfortunately besides medication, which may have sucky side-effects, the things that help alot are eating good and excersing and social interaction and other healthy things. But when ' you' are depressed, even though those things may help, you have LITERALLY no motivation to do it. Someone telling you to do it does not usually work, because in reality some one who has no motivation, just really doesn't care.

I am not saying don't give advice. I just want people to realize that it is really hard when you are depressed to care about doing anything, even if you know that stuff will help. It my sound dumb, but unfortunately that is the reality of it. And just because it sounds stupid does not change the fact that it is the truth. I guess I am saying just be sympathtic and realize that just cause it may work for you, it may not work for someone else. Especially when someone feels that they have nothing to live for.


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By at 05,Mar,10 09:18

I totally agree with you.


By anonymous at 06,Mar,10 12:21

it is nice to know that sum1 like you can understand people that are going through tough times.


By anonymous at 07,Mar,10 17:43

Sorry, too many people blame everyone else for their life. They do stuff like drugs and alcohol and then when their friends & family have finally had enough of their shit, they say their life sucks. It is what you make it. Clinical depression is much more than "unhappiness". Most people can't pull themselves out of clinical depression. Don't confuse the two. Everything can be perfect in your life and you can still be extremely depressed. It's hopelessness not unhappiness. People need to see what THEY can do to remedy their own situations. If they rely on other people for their happiness, they are lost. Figure out what YOU can do to change your life for the better, and then make it happen. It WILL NOT be easy. It might involve disconnecting with some friends or family, but if they are part of the problem, disconnecting is part of the solution. I know, I have been there.


By at 08,Mar,10 14:45

The reason why ALOT of airheads come on here is because there is no supervising over this website. Someone made this site and then abandoned it just like that, which lures ALOT OF idiots to just come on here and say whatever the hell it is they want. there is no kind of modifying or approved comments. Nobody is running this site, which is sad. So in a way, getting advice from THIS site will not do any good for anyone but make them more depressed becuase of what people say to them.

NOw i have been here since November and it has become aparent me that these people are not going to change, they are not going to shoo away. They actually take joy and think its funny to make people feel worse than they already are, and we just have accept it. Do your part and ignore these demons. Thats all you really have to do becuase getting through to them is like talking to a brick wall. Just can't happen. And if you reply to them, all they are going to say is the SAME dain thing "Fuck you, go suck dick, eat shit, go whore your mother, drop dead worthless piece of shit" etc. you pretty much get my drift? same o thing. So don't even bother. thats all they know how to say.


By anonymous at 09,Mar,10 22:06

Anonymous woman, Think about it, if you have so many problems, why are you asking strangers on a website anyway? You'll get opinions. There are rude jerks and there are those that just want to smother them with sympathy. People have to be accountable for their actions. Someone needs to tell them that in order for their life to become better, they have to stop doing stupid stuff. No matter how much they wish, pray or hope for things to get better, if they don't do what THEY need to do, it won't EVER change. Give a man a fish and feed him for a day or teach him to fish and feed him forever. Learning a lesson is better than sympathy.
By at 10,Mar,10 17:55

Yes it is VERY true that people need to take responsibility, but what is the Point in saying it in such a negative way that you make them people feel like they are alone, that people don't care or can relate? there is no need to be ugly. And coming on the internet for help is not really a problem at all. its when you bump into the wrong people that makes everything worse.


By anonymous at 10,Mar,10 00:02

Life is hard enough, when you compound that with job loss or health issues or family/relationship problems in can become damn near impossible. Not everyone has friend and family for support, at least on this site they are reaching out to another human being to hear them out. To answer with swears and foolishness is disrespectful and insensitive, but I assume that this might be from a younger crowd that has no idea what they are in store for !


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