Would every one who comes on this site and has nothing but negative comments to say to people PLEASE stop? If someone thinks that their LIFE SUCKS ,for whatever reason that my be, let them vent about it without having to be ridiculed or made fun of, or worse, make them think that they brought it on their self. And maybe some people do bring it on themselves. But shoving it in their face is not the way to help. How about 'If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all.'
(the first paragraph is meant to be firm and the rest is meant to be informitive in the nicest possible way that can I can say it)
And for every one out there who belives that when someone is depressed or sad that they should just go to a movie or hang out with someone, that doesn't always (usually) work. When someone has depression it can be from losing someone, or work problems, or other stuff. It may also be that they have a chemical imbalance in their brain. Unfortunately besides medication, which may have sucky side-effects, the things that help alot are eating good and excersing and social interaction and other healthy things. But when ' you' are depressed, even though those things may help, you have LITERALLY no motivation to do it. Someone telling you to do it does not usually work, because in reality some one who has no motivation, just really doesn't care.
I am not saying don't give advice. I just want people to realize that it is really hard when you are depressed to care about doing anything, even if you know that stuff will help. It my sound dumb, but unfortunately that is the reality of it. And just because it sounds stupid does not change the fact that it is the truth. I guess I am saying just be sympathtic and realize that just cause it may work for you, it may not work for someone else. Especially when someone feels that they have nothing to live for. | |
NOw i have been here since November and it has become aparent me that these people are not going to change, they are not going to shoo away. They actually take joy and think its funny to make people feel worse than they already are, and we just have accept it. Do your part and ignore these demons. Thats all you really have to do becuase getting through to them is like talking to a brick wall. Just can't happen. And if you reply to them, all they are going to say is the SAME dain thing "Fuck you, go suck dick, eat shit, go whore your mother, drop dead worthless piece of shit" etc. you pretty much get my drift? same o thing. So don't even bother. thats all they know how to say.
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