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I fucking hate my life

Posted by anonymous at December 7, 2011
Tags: 2011 December  Friendship  Society

I consider myself a nice person. When a friend needs someone to talk to I'm there, if someone needs to borrow money I lend it to them if i can, and even try to help out friends with school. I ask for nothing in return and guess what? That's exactly what I get. None of my friends or family ever offer to help me when I'm struggling. I have to beg for favors and usually I'm met with unsympathetic stares . People are only ever nice to me when they need something. I can barely ever get my "friends" to return my phone calls, texts, or get them to hang out. I feel like they mistake my kindness for weakness. I can't even talk to anyone about how I feel about anything because the only advice I ever get is to suck it up and fix it. They blame me for my own problems. Yet when someone is telling me they're having a hard time I'm nothing but nice and I try to cheer them up, not tell them that they're their own problem. People rarely ever pay me back on time if they bother to pay me back at all. I'm sick of being walked on but whenever I try to act the way they do no one wants anything to do with me. On top of that I'm doing horribly in school. Not for lack of studying or trying but I guess I'm too fucking stupid to figure college out. When I try to ask friends who have taken the classes I'm struggling with they barely do anything and say go to tutoring. 'I already tried fucking tutoring it didn't help at all why do you think I'm asking you' is what I think while they act as if I'm just not trying. WTF is wrong with me that I can't get anyone to feel anything for me but annoyance and disgust I feel like just quitting, shutting down and going through the motions like some kind of robot. I can't take feeling like a door mat anymore


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By anonymous at 10,Jan,12 17:55

I understand my friends hv walked all over me ....when I really needed tthem they told me to deal with the problems by myself ....so I ende crying. every night to sleep . Now I dnt make any effort with them neither do they . I am better off without ppl like that In my life .....if u wanna email me on millys2011@live.co.uk


By anonymous at 11,Jan,12 06:55

Welcome to our lives friends.
After school, what keeps you going is youll think that it gets better. Unfortunately this isnt the case. Lets hope that one day, maybe not even in this existence, we get treated fairly.


By anonymous at 24,Jan,12 10:44

I am EXACTLY LIKE THIS! I feel your pain kid.


By anonymous at 28,Jul,12 23:37

same here dude i totally know what you are going through it sucks


By anonymous at 29,Jul,12 14:00

ill be your friend if you need one :/


By Humans suck! at 09,Aug,12 18:46

That's human beings for you. You have to stop trusting people in general, because most human beings aren't worthy of your help and kindness. Since they take it for granted, dump them and find new ones. Sounds hard, since practically all human beings are assholes, but there are probably a small amount of good people out there.


By Jessy at 08,Feb,13 07:16

i fukin hate my life everything i do is just a fuk up i love my girlfriend to bits and no one sees that im such a fuk wit. :{


By jessy james churchill at 08,Feb,13 07:18

i fukin hate my life everything i do is just a fuk up i love my girlfriend to bits and no one sees that im such a fuk wit i wish i was just dead


By anonymous at 22,Feb,13 12:24

i have been struggling for last five years and fighting for my every month survival,, but now i'm very fed up.....


By anonymous at 22,Mar,13 01:47

Hi everyone. To help your down feelings are valid but its how they impact you that needs looking at.
people can be very magnanous or downright tight but usually most would help if they understood you needed it. generally they are just oblivious, mainly hooked on their own issues.
Try and understand that human nature is this way and that there are no ill feelings meant. They are just blind to your needs.Nest time they need help point out you have to wrestle your gremlins first and could they help you? (ie turn the effort back to them). helping you should wke them from their apathy :D
Dont let bad feelings fester try and distract yourself when feeling that way. bad feelings are like the Devils cancer dont let it take hold.
Distract yourself with a hobby, interest, TV anything to break the negative loop.
Remember you are easily as good as everyone else and probably better. Perhaps try not to overhelp others but rather give them a leg up or advice ie if they need $1000 offer them a few dollars for the immediate criis and help em prioritise. That way you wont "train" them that your their only resolution.


By anonymous at 22,Mar,13 01:52

Sounds like many here are youngish and that hurts to see the sadness.I came here feeling down but realise that others have troubles too. Maybe I can offer some advice to help ?
If you stuff up a lot try another tack ie "If you always do what you always did. Then you can only get what you always got".
Cherish what you have ie a warm bed a full stomach, a girl or boy friiend a family. And you will see there are good things.
Try and look at what it relly is that bothers you ask someone you trust and look up to if they could help point you in the right direction and go out and slay that blasted dragon:D Good luck guys I truly hope you feel better soon.


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By chocopie at 19,Apr,19 07:53

p1YlVu Links I am continually browsing online for posts that can help me. Thank you!


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