I'm 28 years old and I live with my parents currently. I recently had a gf of about 3 years and she left me because she believed I cheated on her. I guess I did in a way. She still talks to me and we try to work things out. But she'll never trust me again. And it makes me sick thinking about life without her. Although I do feel as though I would be better off. I'm not ugly or fat or abnormal. I have friends. But they are all married. So are my siblings. That weight is absolutely terrible. I feel as though everyone looks down on me like I can't find someone else. That no one will ever truly love me. My parents treat me second rate and as a failure. I have a decent job. A car. I live in another city and am unemployed through winter so I live with my parents to save money. I see my friends happiness with their spouses and it makes me want that even more. I hate myself even though I'm not ugly or fat. I can't look in the mirror. Even when I'm surprised by one I quickly turn away. I'm not as good a person as I could be. I lie, a lot. Can't really be trusted. And I don't know why. But I can't stop doing it. Most weekends I end up staying home and playing video games to pass time. I hate drinking. The sadness of not having love in my life is seriously taking its toll. I can't stop thinking about it. Stuff never works out for me I always screw it up.
I don't know what to do anymore. Most days I get frustrated with the thoughts someone else is with my ex. And can't sleep or think about anything else. No one even answers my phone calls anymore. | |
in other words, you should not lie, everything that comes out from your mouth should be the truth.....
the only reason a lie was EVER invented was due to fear of consequence......what exactly are you afraid of?
i'll say this, get used to things never working out for you if you can't follow 10 simple commandments......whether you're religious or not, these ten rules are a positive example to live by......hmmm, it's almost like someone knew what they were talking about when they wrote them.
good luck
There are those of the world who have wealth and honor then there are those not of the world who live in poverty and shame. Better people are the unfortunate than the rich who worship the ruler of this world who is the devil. Though men may revere them now, it will not always be the case. This world is temporary and nothing in it is worth doing evil for.
Of course bearing false witness is a terrible sin. But if your lies are not about others, then the previous poster is right, it is cowardice on your part. You have to be a man of your words and not fear judgement or repercussion. Lieing is a lack of faith in the justness of what you do. If you don't believe in what you're doing enough to boldy profess it, then don't do it.
so you held my comment to applying to everyone across the board, then you say that EVERYONE who masturbates is commiting adultery?.....a teenager who masturbates is commiting adultery?......adultery on who?......himself?......what about those who are of age to marry, but aren't married yet, if they flog the log or flick the old bean, they're considered practicing adulterers?.......thanks for the whole diversion about jacking off, but the problem i saw in the OP's post was a problem that he admitted he had, lying......i provide a solid teaching to help him defeat this, and you attempt to tear it down with talk of someone tugging their crotch meat......great job
if your lies are about others, it's called gossiping, which is also considered a sin.......
And I don't think you're sinning by masturbating lol. That's the least of our problems today.
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