So here's my story..... 33 year old male that hasn't worked in a year and 3 months. I have been living off of a divorce settlement that i saved since my divorce 9 months into a marriage , which was at the age of 22. My money is dwindling and I can't find a job anywhere. I moved to this dying city because I loved my girlfriend who is very successful and I basically have mooched off of her for the 15 months that I have spoken of. I can't believe I quit my job and sold my house in this economy for anyone. It cost me 8 grand to sell the house and that took a nice chunk of my settlement money. I have a car payment that I'm not going to make this month, and I have no clue how long its gonna be before they tow it away. The girl that I loved is turning out to be a huge pain in my ass. It is probably my fault because I am the mooch, but she isn't making it any better. I try to do what I can for her by cooking and cleaning and laundry, things like that, but she just bitches about the way I do things. She is a straight up control freak that has to do things her way and a total type-A personality. I mean, she yells at me when I am driving my car because I am either going too fast or slow or the music is wrong. It is god awful. We got in a huge fight tonight and she calls me all these names and tells me whats wrong with me and how I bring nothing to the table, and I will still try to kiss her ass tomorrow because I have nothing to my name. I moved away from my friends and regret it every day. I had a house, a great job, and a future in the big town that I moved from and here I have nothing. I have been thinking about killing myself on a daily basis, but I don't have the heart to do it to my mother, who is the lone bright thing in my life. My fear is that my girlfriend is going to make me move out after this fight and I'm going to have to live with my parents, who live in a shittier small town with nothing.
My rundown if she kicks me out:
33 year old male, unemployed, divorced, engaged/unengaged, lives with parents, broke, a car that will be repo'd, no friends around, and depressed as hell thinking about killing himself.
15 months ago I was employed, had dozens of friends, a girlfriend who cared, a house, a car, a future, and most importantly happy... and 30 grand in the bank | |
When the time is right, you can break up with her, or just leave when she is at work without a verbal goodbye. Dont worry, send a letter to her later.
Next time, be the person in charge and stay away from bossy cunt. Do know that you can always earn the money had saved up before.
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