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Posted by anonymous at January 23, 2012
Tags: Friendship  2012 January

Almost a year ago I had a boy best friend. I'm not gonna lie, we had feelings for each other too but he was still my best friend either way. He was the first person in my life who was always there for me. He took me for exactly who I was. He knew everything about my past and still claimed to be in love with me. I had never experienced anything like my friendship with him before. It was crazy how things were with us. I had a boyfriend back then too which made everything a little weird. My boy best friend and one of my girl best friends started becoming really close and eventually ended up dating even though she knew exactly what it was like between me and him. That crushed me that two people I loved would do that to me. We used to talk about getting married and what it would be like when we had kids. It all seemed so real back then, like a real possibility. But not anymore. Me and him for the most part remained friends. We stopped really talking for awhile and it started getting to the point where I missed him. When we started talking a lot again he told me he missed me too and that he loved me and all that stuff. It was nice having him back in my life, especially with us being just friends and nothing more anymore. But his girlfriend just couldn't seem to grasp that concept so basically it ended up with us not being friends anymore because of their relationship. He told me our best friendship was solely based on us liking each other and that he was holding on to a friendship that never really existed and didn't mean anything. But to me it wasn't about that and it meant everything. I'm in a new relationship and and I'm extremely happy with it but it seems that nothing will ever compare to the past. Losing him was one of the hardest things I have had to go through because it showed me that good things can't last forever and that the most important people can be gone in an instant. Which makes trying to put all of my faith in this new relationship really hard. I don't know if I will ever get over this or if I will ever be okay. I like to think I will but I am honestly worried I'll be fucked up my whole life. All of this crosses my mind and hurts my soul every single day I am alive.


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By at 10,Feb,12 19:50

HELLO MY NAME IS MICHAEL AND IM 21. I WANT TO SAY FROM A GUY POINT OF VIEW. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. BUT THEN AGAIN YOU MISS HIM BECAUSE HE IS NOT THEIR ANYMORE SO ITS HARD TO DEAL WITH AND I MYSELF HAVE THIS GOING ON TOO. IT TAKES TIME YOU WILL MOVE ON. BUT THEIRS A DECISION FOR YOU TO MAKE. TO BE WITH HIM OR MOVE ON.

BEST OF LUCK AND PLZ WRIGHT BACK =)


By anonymous at 10,Feb,12 20:33

You betrayed him and your feelings by not dumping your boyfriend. You expected your friend to wait around, jerking off when/if that ended. Your girlfriend, alot like you found your boy-friend attractive. You were not dating him. You, by staying with your boyfriend rather than breaking it off and dating your boy-friend, allowed that situation to occur, or rather sort of created it.
If you can't forgive the girl, at least forgive the boy, who must have hurt his fair share to see you dating and having to deal with the fact you didn't break it off for him after he confessed his feelings. Just take the leap and give it a shot before you lose the opportunity. He did not betray you. You two never dated, and you were getting it on with someone else.
By anonymous at 23,Feb,12 00:17

I agree with the man above me. Btw i am going through a similar situation with my girl best friend.. Well as of a few days ago she is my ex girl best friend :/


By anonymous at 17,Feb,12 09:24

i don't suck


By anonymous at 25,Sep,12 18:49

First of all, you will not be unhappy your whole life. new experiences will help you to grow and you will start to realize and understand things about YOURSELF. Your best boyfriend cared deeply for you, yet he was unfulfilled because since you had a boyfriend, he could not take your relationship to another level. Remember we are all looking for someone to love and understand us. Your best boyfriend was probably very upset that you were involved in another relationship. He found what he was looking for in your best girlfriend. If your circle of friends is somewhat small, this is no surprise. Why do you think men used to end up with their secretaries? Their secretaries are there all day and they understand what the man faces each day. Your best girlfriend probably saw the sadness and frustration your best boy friend experienced. You were in a relationship. All he knew was hope and despair. Your best girlfriend capitalized on that. But was she wrong? She wanted love and he wanted love, and they found it in each other. You were not an option. If you wanted to be with him, it was your responsibility to realize that BEFORE he went elsewhere. If you two are meant to be together, you will need to confess your love. You must take a risk if you want the reward. It is as simple as that. I am an older woman and somewhat traditional, yet being older, I have seen a lot. If you are now in a relationship that is going well and you are happy, then carry on. If you yearn for your best boyfriend, be sure it is for the qualities he possesses and not because you want to "win" that one. If your love is true and you believe you belong with your old best boy friend, tell him and LISTEN to the response. I wish you luck. Only by exposing your true feelings can you expect to get true love in return.


By anonymous at 03,Oct,12 21:16

woah woah woah SO U FRIENDZONED THE GUY BUT WHEN HE GETS TOGETHER WITH UR FRIEND U DONT LIKE THAT... i mean come on gurl, u have a boyfriend already!!! give the guy a break


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