It all started back at college. I am 28 now. In the country where I live college is free but stupid as I was I needed money to live the high life, and decided to have a student loan. Maximum amount. After college I had good paying jobs, things were going good, I was able to pay for everything. 3 years ago I had the chance to go visit a friend in Spain and since I wanted to make sure I wouldn't lack anything I got myself a credit card. Of course because I wanted more than I could afford I got even more debt. A year ago I met a guy that I fell in love with in the US and we decided to get married. After 3 months I came home because I couldn't legally stay any longer, we decided to do a promising business together, so to be legally able to do that I went to the us embassy to get a business visa. They denied the visa, and denied my visa-free status so I cant go see him. He cant come and see me because years ago he did drinking and driving and he still has to pay some 700 dollars of fine and some 4000dollars of drivers responsibility fee, he cant drive around. We are both stuck in our countries. We decided to do a fiance visa which will take at least 6 months to get until we can meet again. Now we applied for that and in order to keep up the relationship he asked me not to work, 2 weeks ago he lost his job, I dont have any income either, he cant go and have another job because he is unable to drive without a drivers licence. We both have bills to pay. Last week he went to the treasury of state to get a picture id and they told him he eventually can have his drivers licence back if he paid 200 dollars. He paid it and like the day following he got a letter saying he cant have it after all, that was our last two hunded dollars. No drivers licenece, no job, freaking bills keep coming...as a matter of fact, last night we got a 380 dollar telephone bill because I accidentally picked up the phone when he was only ringing me. I dont know what to do. Of course he was so mad at me, he shouted my head off last night, feeling so ashamed, after all it was all my mistake with the phone bill we dont know how to pay...thats the only way we can keep in touch...here in a couple of weeks we wont be able to all because of me.
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