Father by 18. Married by 20. Seperated by 26.
3 kids, no money, loads of debt, tookin to the cleaners.
Fact is, I didnt want my marriage to end, she left me because she did not feel "Marriage Councelling" would work? Go figure. I said I was in for it and even was the one who made the appointment. 1 week before it was suppose to happen, she was done.
Life goes on, 12+ years later, I am making good money in a good job.
Bills, Childsupport and day to day living leaves me living from pay cheque to pay cheque.
I lost my youth do to being a father. Atleast I pay my support and see my kids like clock work.
I lost ALL my friends during my divorce, no idea why. They all went bye bye on me. Like I did something wrong.
My family is a lost cause, the least supportive people on earth.
I have a girlfriend and I have been raising her son as mine, but for the life of me I cannot get her to understand she needs to make a good income, we are struggling.
It seems every move I make, its a 70% chance I am goin to make a mistake.
I am happy like 5 minutes a day if that.
It can always get worse, but I don't think it always gets better.
I've been broke since I had my first child. That would make it 20 years with no savings in the bank. Whenever I do save a few bucks, something comes up to take it away (car repair, etc).
Maybe I am suppose to just be one of the unlucky ones and I need to accept it?