I am a 43 year old loser who has never been on a date or even held a girl's hand. I have a job that I hate and I just show up so I can pay for the town house that I hate. The only think I hate worse than work is the time I spend not at work. I have started talking to myself and counting the days since I last spoke to a person besides the clerk at 7-11. I get from one day, one week and one month to the next by inventing small things to look forward to. Small, stupid things. I tell myself "Maybe I'll get a taco tonight" or "If you can make it until next Friday without breaking down, you can do to the movies my yourself".
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I honestly waay identify with the only getting to talk to the 7/11 clerk. (They are so nice!) (I know- I used to be one!...and my only time talking to people was working and no matter how many hundreds of people I met, I never got a date.) So that's kinda funny.
Don't make your virginity kill your confidence or sound like a bad thing.
Consider it something to be proud of. Or at least pretend so you don't scare a chick away. Don't be too shy.
After you start feeling ok with yourself, then go on e-harmony or something and put yourself out there.
That's the best way for you to change your life around for you to feel happy
On a personal note, jesus has changed my life, maybe try aswell.
Keep your head up.
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