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Wishing she would just leave

Posted by Just Me at February 10, 2012
Tags: 2012 February  Relationship  Sexuality

I'm in a same sex relationship. Before meeting my girlfriend, I was alone for ten years. men didn't know i existed (unless they were creepy or married and looking for a fling). I love her, but she has borderline personality disoder and drives me up the fucking wall with all it entails. And she's in New Zealand, and I'm in the states. I can't just ignore her or walk away or abandon her, even with the distance. I just keep hoping she'll dump me, then I don't have to be the bad guy.


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By anonymous at 20,Feb,12 23:08

You dont even live together, its not a real relationship. People are different over the phone and internet. Dump her if you want. You can't stay in a relationship for other people or because you're destitute.


By anonymous at 21,Feb,12 05:16

Borderline personality is a waste basket diagnosis.


By anonymous at 23,Feb,12 09:32

honesty is the most important thing between two people if you cant be honest with them then its unfair on them. You will only cause more pain the longer you ignore it
By anonymous at 09,Mar,12 15:26

iv tried a far out relationship with a girl it only lasted for about a year because she always thouht i was cheating on her. but wene she broke up with me i never talked or seen her agine because she bloked me on facebook. and deleated my number. ik its hard breaken up with people ever far out but, ik from experience its not that good of idea to date someone far away even if you think you love her. the girl could be all lies evem if you 100% think shes telling the tuth you just cant truly trust. someone that far away. i hope this helps.


By anonymous at 14,Mar,12 03:18

I was in a same sex relationshit with a girl who was borderline. She threatened suicide anytime the prospect came around so I avoided it for those two years despite being very unhappyfor most of it. It was a bullshit psychological ploy to get me to stay and she never actually killed herself orsought help for considering/threatening it. Not my problem ultimately. "I hate you don't leave me" is the name of a self-help book for those types and it's true. Anyway I eventually broke up with her and it was extremely healthy positive and liberating, but we lived in the same town. You have the advantage of not living anywhere close.. Liberate yourself, why remain unhappy for an insane long distance relationship? End it ifyou know you want to and you'll be glad you did.


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