i'm 31 and my gf of almost 3 years broke up with me because i need to "grow up" and she's totally right, i do need to grow up. i'm 31 and my parents pay my rent because i dropped out of college and i'm a line cook at a shitty fucking restaurant and get paid 11 bucks an hour so i can't afford my own rent. i'm too fucking lazy and depressed to go find a real job. i have no skills nobody would hire me. the thing is i truly loved this girl, and she loves me, but she can't see a future with me with the way my life is right now and i totally agree. who the fuck would marry a guy who can't even pay rent? it's not like i'm a stupid person. i think what it all comes down to is i was the baby in the family of 4 siblings and everything has always been handed to me, sure i've had pointless menial jobs after highschool but i've never really had to work hard for anything in my life. that's why when i went to college i just assumed i could pass without actually studying, and i was wrong, i failed out. but i didn't even really try, if i could go back and do it again i would of graduated and probably been married by now and happy. but now i'm alone, and miserable, with no friends, no gf, and no fucking life. i go to work and come home everynight and sit on my computer or play video games. i used to love playing video games but now it's just depressing. also i used to smoke ALOT of weed. i did that everyday for about 6 years. i don't want to kill myself, i'm definitely not suicidal because i've seen that life can actually be really fun, but right now i'm so miserable and lonely. i wish i had at least one good friend i could just go get a beer with after work. all the people i work with are degenerate pieces of shit. i can't even really have a legitimate conversation with half of them because i seriously just don't understand what the fuck they're talking about. they're all very poor and uneducated. my ex gf told me that she loves me more than anything, but won't get back with me unless i can prove to her things will be different. i just miss her so much, she was the only stable thing in my life, and she walked away from me. i didn't treat her bad, i'm a very loving person with alot of love to give, but she just couldn't take my stagnant life anymore, and i can't blame her. i just wanted to rant alittle. so because of my ex gf, i am now seriously going to get my ass up and find a decent paying job, and hopefully make a few friends in the process, because i miss living life. | |
Buddy, perhaps I have different backgrounds from you, but I totally understand how it feels with no friends to go out for a beer. I just feel so bored sometimes with what I'm doing now. And the worst thing is that I want to continue this kind of job forever! What's wrong with me? I go to church often, I believe in God but I don't know what's God's plan on me.
To bEn . . .
First of all. I am an older woman that happens to know that the cards were stacked against you. Women have been groomed for quite a long to time to convince their sons that women would adopt similar roles to men, while women have been groomed to believe they don't need men at all. It's a nasty catch twenty-two that leaves too many of you feeling restless at best, and worthless at worst.
What does that mean in the end? It means you have to man up. Not the figure of speech "man up", but the natural kind that literally, biologically, defines you.
You don't have to believe in God to know we were built diferently for a reason. You can apply simple science and reach the same conclusions. Either way, you need to know that your very existence is being undermined by fanatics that actually benefit from the destruction of your mental health.
Read into that what you want. Bottom line is that whatever your view, the solution to your dilemna is clear. You have to recognize that to excell, you have to find like minded people. Opposites attract? Crap logic. If you like bowling, and your significant other likes sewing, then you beter pray she's ready to sew you a bag because the odds she's tossing a few balls that don't leave you feeling emasculated - are slim to none.
More simply put, if she inspired you, if she was your true partner, then you wouldn't be confessing here, you'd be someplace else, doing something else, that benefitted you as a couple.
Mr "wished he had someone to go have a beer with"? How about your spouse? Do you think she wouldn't rather be with you? She was friends enough for you to marry but not enough to club hop with? I'd love it if my other half asked me out. And before you get hung up on the part where she's pregnant, she doesn't have to drink alcoholic beverages to keep you company.
Listen, I only found this site because I have a spouse that got caught in the cross-fire of this fabricated junk they call "for me." He's a decent man that I called friend for years before I had the priveledge of calling husband. But things changed and I couldn't figure out why on my own. So I did some homework. And after countless hours I came to learn that people were not just being fed garbage, but that they were ingesting it.
Take my word or go to the PEW institute where every date, every stat on every trend is. And when you're done, go to any ".gov" to see how much money is being spent to ruin you from the inside out.
In the least it saves your sanity. In the most, it saves your soul.
i live with my mom in a trailer and am single. i make a couple dollars more but have no healthcare and spend almost all of my cash between rent, food, and transportation leaving me too broke to go out on a date,let alone replace clothes, handle an emergency, pay back debts, etc..
it's hard as hell to meet people our age because most people have paired up and had children, so i am also lonely as hell. have a couple friends i talk to every now and again, but spend most of my free time alone on the computer. playing video games, reading stories, or looking at porn.
I've been alone so long i almost think i'm too crazy to relate to anyone else anyway. it's strange how after a while the desperation just dissolves into a nihilistic resignation. i've been single for years now and i'm not even a bad looking guy. i just don't feel like i have anything to offer a woman right now, so i've pretty much given up on dating.
I feel like i'm trapped in some type of perpetual adolescence, it's become a prison for me. i'm spending life on one video game after another. i don't even joy video games anymore. I just play them out of boredom.
I would love to go back to school. I did well when i applied myself but i was immature and blew my chance because of the substance abuse issues i was struggling with at the time. Never failed a test but managed to flunk out of college. i would just go on binges and neglect my responsibilities. I've grown up a lot since them, but i can't go back to school because i defaulted on my loans, 16,000 became over 50,000 and i can't even afford the minimal payments to get my debt back on track.I feel like a ghost watching a horror show.
I know this is whiny and most of my problems are self created, but it is so frustrating feeling like there is no hope, no second chance to change things. It honestly feels like the door is closed, and i'm playing out a game already lost.
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