I am the most average person in the world. Average looks, height, job, wage. I have gone my whole life unnoticed. I have no money and no friends. I have a wife who is lazy and three kids who will never sleep and fight it until their last breathe. My wife recently lost her job and I am about to lose my job due to cutbacks. I am 33 years old and am $80000 in debt and live paycheque to paycheque. I don't know how to keep going. | |
i know how u fee. i was 5 thousand in debt over a year ago and i paid it all off only to be unemployed again and be 1 thousand in debt again. i know it may not seem like much to you but unlike you i am single without kids. so i can see how a family of 5 like yours can be in debt. raising kids is expensive. you gotta keep trying. try to get some aid from the govt. if you really think you will get laid off. and start looking for others jobs ASAP. good luck.
You're 33 right? Command some respect from your family. You deserve it. I respect you and I don't even know you. Knowing you need change is the first step, it's quite liberating really. We're all fucked in a sense, mentally, financially and most certainly mentally fucked. We should thank are baby boomer parents for the emotional baggage they stuck us with. But fuck it!! We're all average. Did you have hobbies when you were younger? Re kindle those passions. I'm 31 and over the past 4 years I picked up golf, guitar, chess and I started playing pool again...FOR ME! Now I have outlets! Do them alone or invite the family. Don't destroy your inner child because society says you have to be a man. You are a man 3 kids and a wife. Brother you ain't got nothing to prove! Take your life back and have some fun.
Watch funny movies, watch cartoons, smoke a doobie, do whatever it takes to make you smile!!!
P.s. take a family trip. You're already 80 in debt what's another 5?
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