At 33 I have nothing. No house, no girl, no job, no life, no motivation. Used to be pretty cool and popular, now just a loser. Pretty much failed at everything Ive ever set out to do. Getting to old to follow my dreams I had as a youth. Wish me luck, cause Im done. thanks for listening.
You let yourself go, being the popular cool kid, you always thought life would be that way. Funny isnt it? I was the unpopular kid but then became the hot chick that every guy wanted, but I let it get to my head.
You deserve that life back and you can get it back. Failure exists for a reason, so you can improve. Youve obviously not been caring for yourself, if you were youd have a girl, start caring about yourself again like you when you were popular.
Educate yourself, you deserve a better life, start living, you only have this life, there is not afterlife, you only have one chance to make the most of it.
Dig-
I've been in your shoes. I had no job for a bit. I definitely have had bouts of no motivation. I used to be cool. But I am now as homely and dorky as they come. But you know what? Fuck it! Who cares if you're popular? Other than the Disney Channel or Nickalodean no one cares...
As for following your dreams, you better! And I mean it! You're never too old to pursue happiness. You are not a failure, you just haven't been persistent enough-
I would give my left ankle for going back to 33! You are so young and trust me, life doesn't get any easier, the older you get!!
Make yourself happy. Find some work, even if it's crappy, just to give you some motivation to get out of bed. If you can, get on some meds? I took Paxil to help me get out of an emotional cyclone when I got dumped by my ex...
All I did was cry everyday. What a wimp!
But, life does go on. It should improve if you put forth a little effort.. Find a good network of friends, family, felines, furry slippers, and fun. It will bring the positive back into your life (along with depression meds) and then the day wont seem so bleak...
Be strong my friend-
dude, you're not the only one with problems. I suck at living life too. Never had a girl friend either, stuck with no job, no friends, but I don't and won't quit. Actually, I wrote on here about my problems too.
One of my favourite tracks to listen to is Nujabes Luv Sic part 3 because I find it to be encouraging and true.
"It's funny how the music put times in perspective.
Add a soundtrack to your life and perfect it.
Whenever you are feeling blue keep walking and we can get far.
Wherever you are."
Life is journey, bro and you never know what's around the next corner and never will if you cut your life short. Even though life sucks, it's better than being dead. At least by being alive, you can try to find answers to questions about your place in the universe and every now and then you discover cool things. By living, you at least have the ability to do something; to explore, to think, etc.
Life is gift. Many old people out there probably wish they were 33 again. Honestly, no offence, but the way I see it, quitting is for the weak. No one ever looks back and regrets having tried their hardest. Good luck, bro.
Please don't hurt yourself. Think about your life in 10 years, picture it how you want it to go. Never stop working towards that, and when you fall (like you have fallen now) just get back up. That's all we can do, as humans. Please don't try to end your life.
Stop! Don't kill yourself, it's probably too late but think about what you're doing!! If u give up now then you're no better then how you perceive yourself, prove yourself wrong!
go onto you tube and watch some motivational videos, life could be a whole lot more shitty trust me, I was 234k in debt, lost my house, car, became a hard core boozer, lost my job, tried to end it all after my wife left, but didn't, I looked in the mirror and said what the fuck am I doing? and got back on track, worked two full time crap jobs, stopped drinking and after two years I have a great job, debt is almost gone, wife is back, and I think to back then, life sucked and if I would of killed myself I wouldnt be here now, life is a struggle, it's how you handle those struggles and move on that matters, are you a soldier of life or a bitch to your situation?
I no this sounds like I am mocking you but I am definitely not. I am 50 and have a 30 year old house that's falling apart, a husband that hasn't slept with me or barely talked to me in the 11 years we've been married. Have a degree in criminal justice but couldnt take the realities of the real job so am making $8/hr so of course don't have enough to follow my dreams. Actually I'm so oltd I don't even remember what they were anymore. There have been many mornings I have woke up and been so pissed at God for not letting me die in my sleep. All I can say is I just keep getting up and do it one day at a time. I am not a loser and neither are you. We may not be as resilient as some people but we are still worth something and can keep at it. You may not be able to think of anyone that would care if you werent here but I would bet every last thing I own that there is someone that cares about you so much it would destroy their life if you ended yours. You may not know their name and maybe they have been to shy to even say say hi but I know there is somebody so just wake up tomorrow and do whatever you can to make it to the next day ok? Someone once said "If it can't get worse than this, it's going to have to get better" sorry I don't remember who said that but think about it ok? Hope you are ok and keep getting up everymorning.
You deserve that life back and you can get it back. Failure exists for a reason, so you can improve. Youve obviously not been caring for yourself, if you were youd have a girl, start caring about yourself again like you when you were popular.
Educate yourself, you deserve a better life, start living, you only have this life, there is not afterlife, you only have one chance to make the most of it.
I've been in your shoes. I had no job for a bit. I definitely have had bouts of no motivation. I used to be cool. But I am now as homely and dorky as they come. But you know what? Fuck it! Who cares if you're popular? Other than the Disney Channel or Nickalodean no one cares...
As for following your dreams, you better! And I mean it! You're never too old to pursue happiness. You are not a failure, you just haven't been persistent enough-
I would give my left ankle for going back to 33! You are so young and trust me, life doesn't get any easier, the older you get!!
Make yourself happy. Find some work, even if it's crappy, just to give you some motivation to get out of bed. If you can, get on some meds? I took Paxil to help me get out of an emotional cyclone when I got dumped by my ex...
All I did was cry everyday. What a wimp!
But, life does go on. It should improve if you put forth a little effort.. Find a good network of friends, family, felines, furry slippers, and fun. It will bring the positive back into your life (along with depression meds) and then the day wont seem so bleak...
Be strong my friend-
One of my favourite tracks to listen to is Nujabes Luv Sic part 3 because I find it to be encouraging and true.
"It's funny how the music put times in perspective.
Add a soundtrack to your life and perfect it.
Whenever you are feeling blue keep walking and we can get far.
Wherever you are."
Life is journey, bro and you never know what's around the next corner and never will if you cut your life short. Even though life sucks, it's better than being dead. At least by being alive, you can try to find answers to questions about your place in the universe and every now and then you discover cool things. By living, you at least have the ability to do something; to explore, to think, etc.
Life is gift. Many old people out there probably wish they were 33 again. Honestly, no offence, but the way I see it, quitting is for the weak. No one ever looks back and regrets having tried their hardest. Good luck, bro.
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