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Posted by R34 at March 8, 2012

Tags: 2012 March Relationship

i dont know from where to start... after reading so many posts ... i dont think my story is that bad .... i have a bestfriend and me and him have known each other for so long .. almost 7 years now .. and we live in different countries .. just a few months back .. i confessed that i loved him and he confessed he had the same feelings too.... he studying abroad and he wont be back anytime soon ... maybe in 3-4 years time.. i said id wait .... but im very scared that distance might change him or me ... and this fear is really overwhelming..... i dont know what to do to get it out of my system.... im recently acting clingy and scared from everything....... and i hate it .... cant control myself ... so decided to take some distance and take a deep breath ...... im so scared to loose the only person i love and trust so much.

Votes:	[Yes, it sucks 3] [Not really that bad 3]

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By anonymous at 12,Mar,12 01:34

That is so wonderful to hear you and him both feel the same way. A couple of suggestions... Keep living your life, you need to fill up your own cup with or without a partner. How do you both communicate? Phone/Emails, Texts... Stay in contact keep building your relationship with him, But don't get too clingy. There is a lot of dynamics in human relations and sometimes getting clingy can push someone away. So play it cool and keep in regular contact but just don't come on too strong. The best thing you can do is to make your life as interesting as possible and share some of that with him in your letters/emails ect. Trust me a woman who is solid in her own element is very attractive.

Sincerely,
-Optimistic in California

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