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Lonely Virgin

Posted by lonely at March 13, 2012
Tags: Attitude  Loneliness  2012 March

I am a 24 year old college graduate living in New York City, and I am a virgin. It kills me every day. I've kissed a girl one time in my life. I tried all through college to get a girl to even kiss me, let alone have sex with me, but no such luck.

I'm ugly, nothing special. I kind of have that nerdy look and a bit of an acne problem which I'm sure doesn't help me. I'm 5'10 and very scrawny, like 160lbs. No matter how much I eat I can't seem to bulk up, and I'm ashamed to go to the gym and be around all the big jocks while I struggle to lift weights.

I'm in love with a girl, my best friend from college, but I'm stuck forever in the friend zone. To make matters worse, her boyfriend was my roommate 2 for years in college. They've been dating a little less than three.

I knew her before him, and she is the one who introduced us (she started dating him a month later). He's a good friend but I still resent him to this day for getting to her before me. Not that I ever had a chance. He was a volleyball star at our college and I'm just a scrawny fucking loser and I hate it. I don't think she ever even considered me in a sexual way.

Now I'm stuck living at home because I can't find a job, and he's working and just moved into his own place, and she stays with him all the time, which kills me because I go hang out there a lot, and leave alone while they sleep together.

Worst part? He's my only guy friend. I hate him because I can't try to take her from him.

I'll never get to be with the love of my life. My only guy friend is my worst enemy. My life sucks and is going nowhere.

I have to tell her how I feel...otherwise I might as well just kill myself.


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By Ash at 15,Mar,12 13:30

Listen push ups do wonders. Just keep eating, and doing push ups. I don't care what you say, you have to at least try if you want to experience anything that you truly care about. I am 5 9 and very thin as well, but I am over it and try to just have fun with whatever interests you. Do research on how to interact with wome, trust me, it is very easy for a guy to have sex, women outnumber men, but look for a solid relationship, God tells us so. Have faith man, don't look down, think in your head how you want life, and slowly but very surely God will bless you if you follow His rules.I know because every time I am a screw up, I get hit with a bad season, but when I am being a good man, I am adorably happy. Trust me, be consistent with positivity.


By Truth at 15,Mar,12 13:58

Don't kill yourself first! Tell her how you feel. You can always go back and kill yourself later, but you only get to do that once, unless you're one of these rampant fags here who only fake kill themselves, you know, like trying to hang themselves with a piece of yarn.

Anyway, you'll never know unless you tell her. She might say " Oh holy crap what took you so long? I have always wanted to have a pasty , sour smelling, nerd with no job who looks like his face took a grenade for the team! yeah...I'm ready to drop my professional athlete with a 13 inch cock for a casper the ghost look alike with a thumb size meatwhistle!"

...then you can laugh at your friend and dance around screaming "Losers finish first losers finish first!!!!"

Then, when there's a tragic tsunami off the coast of Napaj, and opposite world blows up, you'll have achieved your dream and gone to the opposite of heaven!

!ffo kcuf


By anonymous at 15,Mar,12 17:07

alright. I'm 5 9 and a quarter, 245 pounds and people say I look like I'm 160, when i was younger I used to be scrawny as fuck. the secret is red meat. It needs to be religious. the key is to promise to yourself that failure is not an option. Overall. think long term. short term failures, fuck em. it's a process to get outta the friend zone. and it means stopping being friends for a bit and then re-entering with the intent of becoming something more. push ups are the goods, like ash said, and also to build core strenght plank position for a minute a night for a week
By anonymous at 15,Mar,12 18:14

red meat is really unhealthy.


By anonymous at 15,Mar,12 18:12

do you really want to screw this up and lose the only 2 friends you have? DON'T tell her anything. HUGE MISTAKE. you will feel even worse. truth is that there are many girls out there for you. this feeling for her would pass, even if you got together. in a year or more or less, you would get sick of her and move on. meet someone else that interests you more cuz that's how life goes.....

try drinking ensure to gain weight. or drink milk. the full fat milk. that really makes you gain weight. morning, noon, and night. avoid sweets and chocolate and junk food to clear up your acne. and wash your face with a cleanser 2x a day, morning and at night.

congrats on being a college grad. keep trying to get a job. i am from nyc too and we're luckier than other parts of the country cuz there are more jobs here. sure, it's not as great as it used to be but you have a higher chance of getting a job as a college grad living in nyc. so keep trying and you will eventually get a job.

good luck.


By anonymous at 16,Mar,12 08:14

There are many more women, get the lust out of your head man. Doesn't matter who it is you can find someone else.


By anonymous at 16,Mar,12 22:35

dude expand your social network. you cant constantly hang out with a girl you like and the guy shes dating!!! thats gonna crush you emmotionally! move on. i know its hard but in order to be happy move on!!


By anonymous at 21,Feb,13 05:29

Get a job, get a hooker, get some confidence. People are unbelievably shallow and automated, and success and experience will overcome being thin and spotty. If none of that works...concentrate on self empowerment through a career and remember a wise old adage:If if Flys, Floats or F---s,don't buy, it rent it!
Oxford, UK.


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