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Love's effect on a Teenager: An Average Love Story

Posted by Logan at March 16, 2012
Tags: Juvenile problems  2012 March

I'm Logan, im a 16 year old guy, and well.. ive never really written one of these before. Before anyone reads this, i'm not a whinny social outcast, im just an average teenager, kind of popular, playing baseball, and get okaay grades. im just on the edge and need to get some stuff out. Man, i've been a soft romantic all my life, but never really had a true relationship. Last summer the girl i dont think i couldve lived without (Brooke) told me she loved me, then school started and she liked a guy who had a girl for 8 months, kissed her every day in front of my girl, and decided she was the best fallback girl. Little did he know, she was perfect and no one, not even me deserved to be with her. But this story isnt about Brooke, it's about Sami.

As you could have predicted, Brooke left a nasty toll on me. But today, we're best friends and i wouldnt change that. But while recovering from Brooke, i meet Sami. A milirary girl whose just moved to our island from North Dakota. She was great, a perfect angel. She had the greatest insight on everything, and could always look past anybodys differences and see their beautiful souls underneath. She was the first girl i really loved. So what happened? well i have to back track again.

Also during the summer i get a first job at a sports store, and meet a good friend named Danny, a regular man whore but he's good at it. He'd just moved here too, and was my best friend. So January comes around, and literally, in a mattter of 1 day without any warning, or her toning down flirting, she changed interest into my best friend, who acts today like nothings wrong. They're not together but, he drives her to school everyday, i dont know its literally killing me

If i had to sum this up, it's knowing your best friend stabs you in the back, while the girl you love distracts you. Today, well today was bad. Every time Dannys not around, she tries to act cute and kind of flirt, but not in the bitchy two-timing way. in a really cute, adorable way. Today, Danny leaves to get on stage for drama rehearsal while me and Sami are sitting in the audience. She tries grabbing my phone, saying hi, saying she loved me, and i couldnt take it. Usually id act fine back because, hell hows it hurting you? But i realize i care about people, theyre not just faces to me. If i talk to her, i care more and caring just makes it worse when i see her with Danny. I had to, for the first time, be cold to her. i just said 'just stop and leave'. turns out she was really hurt and left.

Im not asking for sympathy guys, im just asking for you to be cool and allow me to tell this entire story. Im just, im on the edge and i dont know if ill get down. This isnt me, i never really admit to caring about anything because if i admit it to myself, i just get to attatched. The reality is this made an optomistic teenager believe life is just a lie.

From the words of Vinny: 'You never want to let a girl get you down but, at the same time, you cant fight what youre feeling sometimes and it fucking sucks'


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By Truth at 20,Mar,12 01:04

Fuck you, Logan. I hope you get crabs from the local tranny


By anonymous502.myopenid.com at 21,Mar,13 22:49

okay well we were all young once and in that age bracket and had these intense emotions for girls that really had the most amazing way to striking our fancy. and more times than not (or never in my case) they took our heart, ripped it our of our chest and ran with it still pumping and bleeding everywhere down the streets with this horrified look on our faces as we still attempted to understand them. and let me tell you it gets easier as you in time and time again fall in love or whatever and attempt to understand again what makes a female tick or better yet even more impossible what makes the woman your dying to be with want you more than any other man. at this age these broads (and yes they get fat old and have many kids fast) are under and onslaught by men, boys and whatever soo much that intense competition makes it hard for them to latch on to just any one guy. while i still to this day (i'm still alone but thank god i'm not stuck with some ugly broad) i have not completely understood women i can promise you that the worst thing that you are doing right now to yourself is letting them get under your skin (and i know it's really hard to help but fake it and then you have balls and believe me somehow they are more into you when they can't break you). do not let it show that a girl your girl the girl that you cannot get out of your mind no matter how hard you try has that sort of power over you. from that point on you cease to be a challenge to her. get in the friend zone and suck it up time and time again. bide your time and make a move because once she spends enough time with you it's easy. because either you will grow on her and she will be trying to hide feelings she had from you (this is what you want all along just go for it) or you are not her type for some reason and she just wants you as a friend. if you want to cheat then just find out what she wants in a guy and fake that every step of the way. typically its manliness, security, motivation, success, money, FUN TIMES is critical and yet still a little soft side that she feels secure with. and boom you got it. be careful what you wish for you just might get it. i ended up hooking up and well something amazing with 4 of my female friends from high school it turns out that if they want you as a close friend and you do it right that well secretly they might eventually want you too. wow. most amazing relationships i ever had. scary but i had wanted them for soo long. and i only wanted one but turns out they were more whores than i was soo it never worked out for long.


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