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Posted by swtscandy at March 17, 2012
Tags: Loneliness  2012 March

I am 30 years old single, never had a boyfriend, desperate, lonely. My main problem is that I feel shy and whenever guys approach me I cannot connect with them because of shyness. I am an average looking girl, have self confidence but cannot deal with guys. I have a lot of guys friends and I do have crush on some of them but don't dare to take any step. I get confused whenever a guy come up to talk to me. I tried to be open but I failed, I am totally desperate all my friends got married and I am still single, I don't even have a boyfriend. Please please I need help.

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By anonymous at 18,Mar,12 20:32

You probably set your standards too low. You need to find a nerdy man to be with. Give us comic book guys a chance. Andy from the 40 year old Virgin is human too.


By anonymous at 18,Mar,12 21:22

Wow first I would like to say no one should think this is how you should think about yourself. Every women no matter how they look is beautiful in some ones eyes. Average is a term that is placed on girls via society and media. I bet men find you attractive every day but are to shy to say so. Your shyness is not something you can't over come but rather a small challenge that you should embrace. You write as if you think the problem is you however millions of people feel the same way but until you think better of yourself your conception of the world won't change. I only can say two things 1. You are not average no one is, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you choose to ignore this and think your average then think about this average still means your not a failure 2. Your inability to overcome your shyness is something you must master you are 30 prime in your youth the world is at your disposal take part in the flow of life be open to new people and ideas. I wish you the best and don't ever let someone say your average or incapable of being happy even if that person is yourself
By Cursed at 19,Mar,12 12:09

Well put. I concur.


By anonymous at 19,Mar,12 00:12

I can help you. Just walk into a bar and say " I'll do greek!!!! Just come get my address and we'll meet up!!!!". Try that one on sweetcheeks...I promise, your shyness will be overcome!


By anonymous at 19,Mar,12 22:31

If your a girl of 30 and have guy friends, I'm sure plenty of them have tried to smash with you, and you turned them down. Good Job! There are more than enough 30 yr old sluts that give it up to any old guy with confidence. Remember this, that the fact you havnt had many boyfriends makes you special, not the other way around. Sure you may be getting old and its time to get the ball rolling. But believe me, wait for the guys to make the first move, you may be surprised that Good people can see the inside goodness inside of you, and cherish that. Finding a companion will happen if make small steps. Rushing things will only disappoint and make things worse. It always does.


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