I don't know how to feel. My one year anniversary is in a month, and my husband just moved out. He says that he still loves me and that he doesn't want to loose me or get a divorce. He wants us to work on our issues and he things that the best way to do that is seperated. I swear, I am trying very hard to be understanding because I dont want to loose him. His reasons for leaving are in my opinion not reasons to leave. I think that the issues that we have are issues that can be resolved. We live with my parents because they were having some financial problems and asked us to stay so that we can help them out with a few of their expenses. So we talked it over and decided to stay. His job requires him to stay till very late, one of the perks of his job is that he gets free food, what he wants and when he wants it. He sometimes eats three times on one shift. Well he is complaining because I dont leave a plate ready for him for when he comes home from work. And this whole time I am thinking that he comes home well fed. How am I supposed to know that he comes home hungry if he is constantly talking about how much he ate at work and all that. Another thing that he has an issue with is that we are still here with my parents, when my parents have always been very supportive. They would totally be okay if I spoke to them and let them know that we needed to move for the sake of our relationship. What upsets me is that all that he can say is that he just doesnt know, he just doesnt know... I dont know what to do? I am scared because I dont want to loose him, but I am also angry at him for putting me through all of this. Part of me wishes that I just stop loving him. I just dont know what to so. Should I give him an ultimatum or give him time to work on the issues he needs work on?
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