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passing by

Posted by anonymous at March 22, 2012
Tags: Attitude  2012 March  Meaninglessness  Sociopathy

i am 24 male, i have a feeling like my life is passing by, all my friends are making new friends, and im like a puppy dog whos with them. its very difficult or even impossible for me to make friends, all the way through university i made 2 friends. no matter in what social group i am, at a party, at work etc. i am always the one who gets laughed at. its because im a NICE guy, i hate it. i have no social life at all, all i do is sit at home, go to gym and thats it. everything seems so pointless. i am a total loser, and everybody knows it, the few friends i have, they are all very popular, sometimes i wonder why they still hang out with me. oh yeah and i have never had A gf. its very difficult for me to go to public places like the mall, just walking on a crouded street, public transportation ....(i have social fobia). the f i wrong with me?


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By anonymous at 23,Mar,12 03:44

Nothing is wrong with you. I know what it means, to be socially awkward (forgive the rude label) and nice, which usually results in people making fun of me.

I don't mean to be pretentious by giving advice (after all, how can a random stranger decide what's best for you?), but I'm giving advice with the hope that it will help you out.

My advice is, don't let life pass you by. There are so many things to do in life, you just haven't discovered them yet. Don't live a passive life, watching how other people's lives are great, and how you are the socially awkward one. In fact, know that being "socially awkward" is a fucking retarded label. There's nothing wrong with having a phobia of people. I don't want to spout the whole "everyone is unique" stuff, although it is true. Its just extremely hard for people to realize when they are surrounded by people who seem to be more liked by others, and have a better life. Trust me, if you care about your life, and are willing to do your best to break out of this monotonous cycle and do something,

you will start going somewhere with your life, and find out what you want to do with your life ,who you are, etc.

To put things in perspective, there are people born into poverty, into slavery, into illness; They literally cannot change their current condition. They have to have sex for say, a bag of potato chips.

But you can change how you are now. Change who you are, in the sense that you are discovering what you can be (so, yes, paradoxically, change who you are while remaining true to yourself, don't fool yourself into believing something you're not).
I'm sure there are many things about you that people will love, you just haven't found those people yet.

Sign yourself up for different things, keep your life busy with different things. For one thing, if you are busy, you won't worry so much (trust me).

For another, if you try out different things, you may find out what's missing in your life, that inspirational thing that may be your interest, or passion, for the rest of your life.

Anyways, I'm not even sure you're going to read this far, but I'd like to thank you anyways for posting this, and helping clear my head. I don't know who you are, but I sincerely wish you good luck.

By anonymous at 23,Mar,12 06:22

Wow i'm just like what you're going through, i hate going to public places as well. i don't know it kind of freaks me out being around so many people, can't stand it as i feel sickeningly uncomfortable. The result, i shut myself in my room all day like a damn prisoner just having to come out as i need to run afternoon errand for my aunt and then go back in. Each day is a struggle for me but i have to continue to fight and be strong for my fam. I don't wanna hurt em by taking away my life, so i'm stuck here in my dark hole with no hope in sight.

By anonymous at 23,Mar,12 07:04

theres nothin wrong with u im exactally if not u have pretty much written my life in ur story, so dont think ur doin this alone cause there are plenty out there who go through makes me feelin better now that i know im not the only one goin through this.

By anonymous at 23,Mar,12 07:39

Look I know what you mean but it's not you! It's everyone else being used to what you were like, just be different, maybe sware more and act different as in more 'naughty'

From someone who is in your shoes

By anonymous at 23,Mar,12 08:18

thanks for your understanding ppl
i try to fight it now, i put myself into situations i usually try to avoid. the beginning is hard, but some ppl are doing better, i looked some videos on utube about my situation, i hope i will come out as a winner.

By Cursed at 23,Mar,12 14:20

I hate crowds. I hate standing in line. I hate driving in traffic. So you know what I did? I moved to the mountains. And you know what- the stores are still crowded, I still have to stand in line, and I still have to sit in traffic!
Trust me kid- you're not alone. Even when you want to be-

By anonymous at 24,Mar,12 03:45

those ppl suck. they are insecure, stupid and ugly. don't get a big ego about it though. most ppl are seriously suprficial. they are dangerous.

By anonymous at 28,Mar,12 06:53

i live in a share house with 5 other people and i can't even leave the fucking room to take a piss if i can hear someone else outside the room. I'm sick of it but i can't do anything to change it

By anonymous at 04,Jun,12 00:13

I know how it is. I was always the one in the corner of class room with my nose in a book.

By anonymous at 19,Aug,12 14:30

People are selfish and cruel and uncaring. Girls and women are generally cold aloof and unfriendly. Im also a lonely guy who is depressed and mentally tormented. This world is a cruel sick fucked up joke. Evil rules this world not a loving God.

By anonymous at 01,Sep,12 21:27

and my final comment to all you dirtbags who harassed me is FUCK YOU ASSHOLES.

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