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I feel lonely.

Posted by Zela at March 24, 2012
Tags: Loneliness  2012 March

I am now twenty one years old. I left my parents house when I was nineteen. I am not lonely per se. But I do feel very unhappy from time to time. My friends are good girls and they don't like to party. So I stay at home night after night. I either work or sleep. Lately it has become a sort of routine. I go to work early in the morning, spend a grueling day with my colleagues. I am a journalist and that means moving from place to place. Then when it is night I say bye and go home. When I call one of my friends they tell me in a patronizing tone that I should stay home and read a book or something. And in my country if you don't have a friend to go out with you at night, it is better not to go at all, especially if you are a woman. I have alot of energy to spend. And this forced inactivity bores me out of my f***ing mind. I want to go out and enjoy life more. The trouble is I am terrible at first meetings. I want to meet new people that have the same interest as me. What would you suggest I do?


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By anonymous at 24,Mar,12 16:22

oh my god! you are so me... I was just google-ing around to help me pass the night and i went through your post.. we are just so similar... aspiring journalist, not good in first meetings, have friends who do not hang out that much, live alone and single..the whole day pass by wellbut when i get to bed... all i can do is cry myself to sleep out of desperation... i don't know what i need... people tell me to get busy in what i love to do like, reading, writing, blogging, getting involved in music, photography bla bla bla.. i have interest in all of them but i just don't feel like doing anything... sometimes i just want to enjoy my life, hang out a little, party a little, have a huge group of friends or one amazing boyfriend... huh! i think i didn't give you what you need rather i blabbered out my own frustration...


By anonymous at 24,Mar,12 16:45

I've got an idea , we can create a google plus page and the people with sucked life will be able to communicate , may be some of us could help some others , I hope the admin of this site help with placing the g+ page link in this site .


By at 24,Mar,12 19:25

I actually think the Google+ idea is kind of a good one... I'd join. In times like this, people need support.

I can definitely relate. I'm in a dead-end relationship with an unappreciative jerk and I lost many friends because of him. I can't go out because he'll do something to "get back at me". So I go to work, school, come home, and sleep just enough to do it all again. I'm planning on doing something about it... eventually.


What I find helps, is being kind of boring, an upbeat to make friends with the majority. I don't know what kind of people you seek. For me to find people I actually can get on with (strange people who are intelligent with an awesome sense of humor, but not socially inept) I found that unfortunately you have to hide yourself a bit if you're anything like me. You use the average types to find people who actually interest you.

Look at your facebook friend's list. We all have 43895397 friends who we probably haven't spoken to. Start by liking their photos or comments, or making comments, and eventually stem into a conversation with them. After a few times, maybe you'll have someone you can hang out with. There you go. An opportunity for a friend who will go party with you or whatever.

I definitely know what that's like. I want to party, but my friends are good girls.. the only way to find people you like is to keep meeting new people by whatever means available.

Don't procrascinate. Get out of your comfort zone. Smile. Holy FUCK does it ever make people act differently around you if you just smile. Take chances, go out with people even if you find them a bit lame. You know why? Because it will give you conversation material. Without it, you don't really have anything to say to anyone.. and that's counterproductive to what we're trying to do. Hmm, that's it for now haha


By anonymous at 24,Mar,12 21:42

=_(_


By at 26,Mar,12 11:22

Although I'm not a journalist (I'm a student) I think that you should go out and meet new people. Make friendship with the person you met. Life is short so enjoy it everyway.....


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