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I can definitely relate. I'm in a dead-end relationship with an unappreciative jerk and I lost many friends because of him. I can't go out because he'll do something to "get back at me". So I go to work, school, come home, and sleep just enough to do it all again. I'm planning on doing something about it... eventually.
What I find helps, is being kind of boring, an upbeat to make friends with the majority. I don't know what kind of people you seek. For me to find people I actually can get on with (strange people who are intelligent with an awesome sense of humor, but not socially inept) I found that unfortunately you have to hide yourself a bit if you're anything like me. You use the average types to find people who actually interest you.
Look at your facebook friend's list. We all have 43895397 friends who we probably haven't spoken to. Start by liking their photos or comments, or making comments, and eventually stem into a conversation with them. After a few times, maybe you'll have someone you can hang out with. There you go. An opportunity for a friend who will go party with you or whatever.
I definitely know what that's like. I want to party, but my friends are good girls.. the only way to find people you like is to keep meeting new people by whatever means available.
Don't procrascinate. Get out of your comfort zone. Smile. Holy FUCK does it ever make people act differently around you if you just smile. Take chances, go out with people even if you find them a bit lame. You know why? Because it will give you conversation material. Without it, you don't really have anything to say to anyone.. and that's counterproductive to what we're trying to do. Hmm, that's it for now haha
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