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self inflected wounds

Posted by Blah at March 27, 2012
Tags: Job  2012 March  Money  Relationship

Well to begin I’m in the army, have been for 10 years. I understand that life in the army is usually not too bad they provide for everything, rent, food, utilities and pay u to go to college. But I dug myself in a huge hole that it isn’t even funny. Now I realize that my story isn’t the worse and it is recoverable but at the very least it feels better to complain about the situation I’m in. Well first off let’s start with the job, like I said I’m in the army but a recruiter, now if u know about recruiting its very political. They don’t look out for anyone in the unit, they try and screw u over at every chance they get, and if u were ever to get on the hit list, good luck trying to get off of it, I should know from firsthand experience. And on top of that I am being investigated cause I admit I messed up on the paperwork, but it was unknowing to myself until it was actually pointed out on a piss test I had to conduct, so now I’m stressing about not only the investigation outcome which could end my career of 10 years, but I’m trying to balance getting people in the army cause if I don’t then I have about 3 to 5 people yelling at u asking y u haven’t put anyone in the army, so that how much fun I’m having at work and there’s more about work but I’ll get to that. Now let’s go with the ex-wife, I was married to her for 5 years I deployed to Iraq and she cheated on me we got divorced, we had a son together which even though we have joint custody she thinks that she has all the rights over him cause she is the main parental custodian, so I don’t get to see him when I’m supposed to plus she keeps asking for more money, so now I’m wasting more money on lawyer bills to combat the situation. Now to the current wife, my current wife is wow. We have 4 kids together she has 2 kids with 2 different guys and 1 kid with me and of course my son with my ex. Now my wife is the most jealous person I have ever had to encounter, in my job I have to work with and try and recruit females, now my wife flips out cause I have to talk with and drive back and forth to process and test. Now jealousy isn’t bad but the extremes that she goes to is insane, also she is rash, she is the type of person who will act without thinking about the consequences, example she was working and this women she worked with who was a piece of crap decided to sign my wife’s name on medication that the women pocketed which made it look like my wife stole them, so my wife showed the head boss that we weren’t even in town at the time so the head boss told her to write a statement, so she did. Well the head boss gave the statement to the women who signed my wife’s name and had them work together the following night. Now I understand that it was the wrong thing to do because the women did nothing but talk trash to my wife just egging her on. And for most of the night my wife did great didn’t do anything didn’t say anything, until the other lady started to get physical, now when I talked to my wife I told her at that point I would have just left, I would have called the head boss and the supervisor who was there at the time that I can’t work in this environment and I would have left home, did my wife do that nnnoooo, she hits the women in the face (it was out of self defense cause the women hit her first) which ended up my wife losing her job and us having to pay 1500 dollars for court costs and lawyer bills cause the lady filed against my wife. On top of that back to my job, since my wife is so insanely jealous she has complained to my 1sg that she suspects I have been cheating her with my applicants and I have tried to explain to her that I didn’t and that I’m around her almost 24/7 when I’m off and around co workers when I’m working, but her rashness persists and if she continues I will lose rank cause of it, in the process screwing not only myself but her and out children in the same process. Now onto the bills, these were self inflicted for the most part, now me and my wife can’t manage out money at all, like say if we have money to eat out we eat at places that charge 20 dollars for us to eat, I realize that doesn’t sound like a lot but when u don’t have money it is. We got furniture that we can’t return or afford, we are behind on child support cause my ex wants more money and on top of all the other bills, I have a AER loan through the army which I’m paying back, on top of a 5000 dollar loan that we had to get to pay for lawyers cause out our 2 year old was 3 oz lighter at 2 months due to being lactose and tolerant so the doc thought my wife was malnurishing him so we had the lawyer bills from that, and a lawyer that was a POS to try to get custody of my oldest son but the guy did nothing but take out money. So we have the loan, then we got furniture that is like rent to own but we can’t give it back till 6 months of paying on it and we have 2 months left before that happens. And what’s worse is when I get home from a hard day I get to come home to a jealous wife who complains, ok now on the complaining part I will listen to her complain to high heaven as long as she wants, but when everything she complains about is about me and everything affiliated with me it gets old really fast especially if it’s not in my control to fix. Like I said it’s fixable with time but just right now it’s a pain to have to deal with all this stress at once and sometimes I think how am I able to deal with all of this and still be sane.


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By anonymous at 22,Apr,12 22:47

just a update i was read a artical 15 and now im gonna loose rank and possible get kicked out of the army


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