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Drawing Strength

Posted by BC at March 31, 2012
Tags: 2012 March  Relationship

I always drew strength from my marriage. Having faith that I had the security of my relationship with my wife allowed me to have the confidence to go forth and take on the world. Then I found out my wife was unfaithful. It has hurt my psyche more than I could have ever imagined. I think I'm ugly, physically and intellectually, because my wife had the need to find satisfaction outside of the marriage. I have no more confidence in myself. My job has always sucked, but the strength in the knowledge that my marriage was solid allowed me to perservere. Now my job sucks, my marriage sucks, my life sucks. I have very little going for me. For the first time in my life, I actually understand the plight of those who have taken their own lives.


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By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 10:56

get out of that "relationship" QUICK

when your brain says "but u'll miss her"

then tell it to shutup immediately.. u are being eaten alive!


By at 31,Mar,12 11:08

Good day chap! Did your dear wife spread her legs for a midget? Oh you poor bugger, I know what would make it all better! 26 xanex and a bottle of good single malt scotch!! That will def help you, you shit filled crybaby! Be a real man or get off the Rugby team. Go down to a flop house and drop 8 quid for a one legged prostitute named Haggas and get back in the game. God save the Queen
By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 14:56

This Brit is a bloody poofter.
By at 31,Mar,12 16:01

Your two fathers were poofters, sir, and you were born an arse baby outside of perth.....Remember, Austrailia is inhabited soley by criminals and their jamrag offspring. God save the Queen
By at 31,Mar,12 15:01 Fold Up

By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 22:58 Fold Up

get your fat limey ass outta here, you scumbag!

By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 20:26

When we wrap ourselves in others we lose sight of one of the most important things ourselves,

By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 21:34

What the fuck are you guys talking about? speak english you fucking numbnuts.

By anonymous at 31,Mar,12 23:47

It's no easy situation to love someone and feel that they don't respect you...Never go down the route of self hatred if you feel she's worth forgiving forgive....but u have to be strong enough to truly forgive. Tell her how you feel make sure she's not just waiting for the next thing to say but realllly listening if all she can do is be defensive the it's time to move on. Get out the house and have some fun meet people, try something new :)

By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 02:35

Fuck that old hag you call a queen! Do you have fucked up teeth like all brits

By anonymous at 01,Apr,12 10:41

60 percent of marriages fail: consider the person you were with was screwed up and it isn't personal. Offer her compassion, tell her you'll help her if she wants and move on; bitterness gives the other person control. It is better to be alone with a good book than with a person who isn't nice. What interests you? Throw yourself into something new if you don't know try a lot of things - even stupid things, horseback riding, hiking clubs, therapy, kite flying, until you find something of interest then stick to it and you'll meet new people and forget about her quickly.

By Cursed at 01,Apr,12 13:55

Dear BC-
If you and your wife love each other then you can work this out. But you BOTH need to be on board- to rectify your marriage. Go to marriage counseling. Heal. If everyone got divorced because of infidelity, NO ONE would be married. Do you know why she felt the need to find someone else? Were you unavailable emotionally, physically? Did something tragic happen to her? There's a reason she cheated. And if you love her, then you need to forgive her, and move on. Not sure how many years you've been married, but the grass is not greener on the other side. True love is very hard to find and we are human, and we do make mistakes.
Try counseling before you jump the gun and lose the only thing you cherish because you're angry-
Be strong-
Follow your heart-

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