LIFE SUCKS

You have to remember that regardless of being a couple, you two are separate individuals. She should not have to idly stand by while you pursued your own interests. I'm sorry, but leaving you was expected, and the reason you idolize her even more afterwards is because she had the ability to stand up for herself and change the course of her life. There is no way to change it, except to move on and hope to find someone who could even hope to equal what your wife had. It might seem hard now, but life goes on.

Dear Sir-
For many humans, monogamy just isn't in the cards. In fact, there are very few animal species that are... bald eagles, antelope, beavers, ect... In nature, animals are promiscuous and opportunistic. So it's not surprising that as humans, we often "wander".
But getting married- well, that's a ball and chain my friend. You chose to commit yourself to "ONE" female. When in actuality, you weren't programmed to do so? It is a challenge to find someone you're completely compatible with, both emotionally and physically. To commit to someone forever, till death do you part, well, that's a LONG ASS TIME! And it's obvious, you are not hard wired to be that way. It isn't the end of the world to be a consummate bachelor! There are worse things??? So, now that you're aware of your behavior, you can do two things: accept who you are and what you enjoy, or CHANGE. I'd opt for the first, since it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks. Just accept the fact that you aren't the marrying type, and be single. There is nothing wrong with that, unless you want to reproduce, then it could get a little sticky.
Whatever you decide to do, just remember: "You are who you are". As long as you don't hurt anyone in the process, live your life the way you WANT to! Forget about how "SOCIETY" expects you to live....
Take care, be safe, wrap it up, and be happy...
Cursed

If you really loved her you wouldn't have cheated on her. Sex should be easy enough to control, its too many steps just to get to that point.

This is not an unusual issue; it happens to many guys. But I guarantee you, if she came back within a month you'd feel like cheating again. Distance and unreturned love makes it grow larger....I suggest you throw out everything to do with her, if you are in the same apt you were with her move, even move cities or states if that's possible. The more you change your perspective you;ll forget her. She may have been the greatest thing ever but the longer you want her the more sure she will never come back. As soon as you move on and forget her, she may be attracted to you. Women hate needy guys so forget her.

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