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Posted by Lilian at June 7, 2010
Tags: Attitude  2010 June

Hi, this does not really suck in comparison to other problems mentioned in this site... i just wanted an opinion.

Am i normal? I hate the thought of having a baby and this makes me somehow sad (i'm contradicting my self but i have very mixed feelings about this). I do NOT hate older children, but i find babies disgusting, a weight, and stupid. When i see one, especially when it is crying, my first instinct is to run away.

Very often i also have bad thoughts.. like for example i imagine that if my baby were crying like that i'd smash it on the floor or something.

My mother was aggressive, very aggressive.. and she used to hurt me physically and psychologically. I am afraid that i'm developing into a monster like she was.

When i am angry i tend to hit stuff.. i don't want to break anything but sometimes it happens and very often i hurt myself by punching stuff. Today i punched a table and now my hand is blue.

Anyway, i also hate the idea of change, i do not like the idea of having a baby crying around the house, but i get lots of pressure from my family with comments like "get pregnant at last".

I can imagine myself as a happy mother of someone who already is 5-6 years old and is a little bit more independent, goes to school and does not need ass cleaning all the time anymore. But i do not like the idea of being weak for years and years by having a baby. I will be totally dependent on my husband and i will not be able to work as i would like, travel around etc..

For my husband all seems so easy, but he can have his career, he can travel thanks to his job, while i have dedicated all my life to studying, i have many diplomas, and now just because i got married and i am 31, nobody wants to hire me because they all think i'll soon have a child.

I studied and i worked really hard, and the MOMENT i got married my company FIRED me..i am searching for a job and cannot find anything.

If i have a baby i will have to do everything for it. my husband already declared he won't lift a finger to help feeding or changing diapers. I will be 24h per day taking care of some yelling creature instead of working & having a nice time in the office (i always was very happy in every job i had).

Having a baby will mean taking my education and throwing it down the toilet.

Life for women sucks, we are not allowed to have family & career together.. while men have it easy.. they get hired whenever they want, they even get more money when they have kids, and they get to travel and they get all the best positions.

If i have a baby i will be a weak housewife who has to ask her husband for every cent she needs to go shopping.

I want my own life, my own money, a career and everybody to stop pushing me about the baby thing.


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By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 00:04

hey cunt, you has a vagina, a big gaping hole down there.... so that jizz goes in... and babies shove themselves out of that anchovyhole

its not like ancient times.. you can have a sex change... but i guess you won't now that you are already over 30..

if you dont want a kid then don't.. no one is forcing you..

hell, you dont even have to get married in this day and age

you can also be a lesbian


so stfu and get on with your pathetic excuse of a life...
By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 17:45

easily the best answer here.


By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 00:47

you don't HAVE to have a baby you know. I don't like them either. In fact I'm in my 40's now and most women I know who have had babies are very stressed out and fat and unhappy. Most men are just dissapointed in their children. If you don't want to have a baby, why have one. Yes pregnancy is grosse. In my opinion it's disgusting. Let other women do it. They certainly seem eager enough for some reason. When I see a pregnant woman's belly I feel a bit sick inside. I think it's normal but most people try to cover up their feelings to suit what society expects, ie-pregnancy is a MIRACLE!


By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 02:00

Hey, not everyone is born to be a parent. I dont like kids either. When they are babies they like a piece of meat that cries all the time. Cant find anything attractive on them. Then, when they get older at the age of 6-12 they go like 'buy me this, buy me that' you always have to carry them with you when you go for vacation with your husband, or when you want to stay out late at night, they suck time of your life, time that could be used in your career and you could get a promotion that you never get because of them. And then comes puberty.... At the age of 13-19 they are the most disturbing things on earth. They become aggresive for no reason, they stay out late while you are worrying if anything happens to them, they smoke, drink, some try drugs, anyway puberty is a nightmare. After that they get into college and when you think you got rid of them, here they are again with their screwed lives, finding out that they dont know what they actually wanna do with their lives, being not sure about their future and if they can survive in this jungle out there alone, so you have to support them forever and ever. A few years later they get married to a bad husband/wife, they have their own shitty lives, having a job they hate and a family they also hate, and you cant even enjoy your 60ies. You have to listen to them complaining about their lives and telling you that things didnt work out as they expected. Im telling you, not having a kid is the best choice. Having one, is like opening the door to thousands of problems that you would never have without a kid. Dont do that. And honestly, if you think about it, what does a kid offer you at the end? Dont tell me happiness, thats what people who have lost interest in life say. People who are bored living with their husbies/wives and expect from a kid to relight the fire in their lives. And marriage, is another big mistake in our society. But that ofcourse is another issue. Try to be simply be with someone. No marriage, no kids. Just consentrate on your careers, travel around the world together, grow old together if your relationship lasts till then and leave this life full of worth living experiences and memories. Dont let a failed marriage and a stupid kid ruin that. Marriage and kids to me are just problems, leadint to other problems.


By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 03:27

you should have a baby then smash its face in with a brick then get pregnant again and repeat the cycle. be a monster like your mom.


By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 06:08

I would love to try to impregnate you....
By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 06:29

shame on you, loser!


By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 08:55

If you are for sure that you really, really don't want a baby, then get a hysterectomy and shut up. But, having several "career women" in my family, I can safely say that there's a 75% chance you'll wind up adopting some unwanted third world baby over the internet in order to show off to your friends by the time you hit 45. Because like it or not, babies are status symbols for the rich too. You'll probably wind up riding the ass of your kid up until college, and he/she will either leave you in disgust or you both will become so co-dependent on each other your life would pass for a Lifetime original movie. Then when the kid's 20, and you'll be in your 60s, you'll expect him/her to move in with you to watch you die and you'll wind up fucking the kids life over just as you feared would happen to your own life. You won't give a shit though, since you're nothing but a selfish cunt. Hit the glass ceiling, break your neck and die bitch.
By anonymous at 11,Jun,10 10:03

Oh is that gonna be my future? Og my god, im so afraid. Are you sure mr 'i know everything' that its gonna be like that? So scared. :-//


By at 11,Jun,10 20:11

If you have to ask, the answer is no.
Babies are an 18 year commitment (minimum)of love, caring and patience. My parents were both severely neurotic and should not have made babies, but I somehow survived with my mental health somewhat intact. Unfortunately, I hate females due to my psycho grandmother, mother and mean-spirited sister. More unfortunately, I am straight and not gay. Many kind and friendly hookers have made a lot of money from me for their services. Many strippers have also made money off of me.
My honest opinion is that education for women is pointless.
If you have a son, he will grow up hating you and hating women.
If you do not like my opinion, tell my psycho mother who passed away a few years ago. I celebrated my mother's death by playing the song from the Wizard of Oz, "Ding Dong the Witch is Dead".
By Lilian at 14,Jun,10 05:55

LOL - well sometimes i find myself happy that my mother died, too... thinking "imagine what she would do to me if she knew this!".

yeah well, i think it would be egoistic to have a kid in my case, because despite putting someone into this world who never asked to be born (and who'll throw this into my face on every possible occasion), I'll mp treat it badly and it will turn out in the best case disturbed.

Apart from this, looking at how life is nowadays, what's the point in having a child at all...

They call me an egoist, but i think those who HAVE kids are egoists, they just want someone to take care of them when they'll be old. They are afraid not to be accepted by society and end up having kids just to show off.

With so many people on the planet (and the pope telling not to use condoms), with all the damages we caused to this planet, well, things cannot get better, and i don't want any child having to face the future.


By anonymous at 14,Jun,10 07:18

why do you wanna have kids anyway? isnt your life exciting enough without them that you are looking for something to relight the fire or something? Find an exciting person to spend your life with, travel together around the world, see new places, concentrate on your career, be somebody important in your job and leave this kid thing idea. its not worth it!


By anonymous at 22,Sep,11 09:09

listen bitch
you brought that kid to world
its your problem
nobody is forcing you to have a baby
some people want kids but they cant get pregnant
so give your baby to some one
or go to hell and shut the fuck up
By anonymous at 05,Jan,12 23:32

You silly cunt. She DIDN'T bring any kid into the world, she's merely pondering the idea of doing so and it seems that's she's making the right decision, ie, NOT having a kid. Can't you read, you fucking retard?


By Ajaj at 20,Jul,15 03:38

Fell out of bed feeling down. This has brenhtiged my day!


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