I grew up with a evil father, He was a child molester. My mother was too young to really care about her children. Left us alone A lot.I became a mom to my sister and brothers.My Mom just could not get away from my father. He was controlling. He was able to get custody of atleast two of us . Back and forth many years. The age of 9 I told my dad to stop touching me . He was a very sick person. He also messed with our heads alot. I was liked by many people and had friends. We moved a lot, my dad was old and after his heartattacks he stopped working,He seem to use people a lot calling his friends for money etc..
He grew up in a large city 9 brothers one sister and went to catholic School.
Famliy is well known and achived great things. My dad being the youngest something went wrong.
My dad stopped molestingme and went to my sister,I asked her many times without asking directly if dad was doing anything. We lived in many bad parts of town.My little sis ran away one day .We chased after her only to have a guy put a knife to my brother and my throat. He let us go do to my brave action. AT 13 I was Raped,told my father and he said, I must of wanted it. 18 had a jerk for a boyfriend I was never good enough stayed three yrs.Second bf 5 years he was abusive and I am not sure if I made him crazy. I am not trusting and a hard person ...But through all of this I prayed to God every night to take care of my family. MY faith kept me from all drugs,drinking,etc ..even though I didn't finish High school I was able to have good and stable jobs..always had money...just could not stay happy or happy with anyone ...Spent 8 years with someone who has truly made me think there is true evil out there. All the years of hurt and pain two kids two shitty dads. I finally found a NICE GUY I was learning. Moved to another town same state with my 15 year old and we had a beautiful house and I finally had the so called "normal life" my ex had not seen my son in two years ..he told him he could move .I tranfered with my Job it was all good. Then I got served paper to move back in two days. My son and I had to live in hotels and brother couch. NO money no job and my son was depressed . He finally had a man he could looked up to. My son saw his dad and he dad got abusive right away. MY son told the school he wanted to kill himself or his dad if he had to see him. I just moved back 6,000 in lawyer fees and nothing. The system is there so lawyers can make money.Not to help! We have been back for 5 months and I been looking for a job,had to start over. The Man I was going to marry got too stress out for all of this. There were many days I was not sure I could hold up myself let alone my son. ALso found out most of my childhood friends were also molested by my dad,and my sister. I feel so much guilt and shame for everyone who has to go through life in such hurt and pain ..MY ex is just like my dad he did not care about my sons happiness. He is a loser and user . He said he hurt himself and work and lied. He is on SSI and living off gf. He just bought a new truck with all of his settlement money. His gf is a social worker who uses her job as a way to find out what we are doing. they have stalked me for 10 years . Call me stupid, no good mother so much more.
They have treated my son so shitty..my ex put my son in a hot bath and forever changed his life ...scars for life and told him no one will ever love you.
One person can change you're life forever ...I just keep praying and hanging on for dear life ..they're have been so many nice people and I have truly been lucky we're not on the street. Everyone keep ur heads up everyone has a story ...I just thankful for what I do have everyday..my parents are gone .I feel alone most of the time ..SO when I have a good day I hang on to that . | |
Sorry to hear about your rough life perhaps you could get the guy arrested for the hot bath situation and have his parental rights taken away. Then try to get proof of them stalking you through that chicks work with a tape or video recorder and give the evidence to her boss. You can also report your dad and sister if you can get evidence or testimonies from your friends. That should help you move on from them all and find a new start for you and your child.
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