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This love triangle sucks

Posted by blabla at April 3, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Relationship

3 years ago I caught my husband of 4 years flirting online.
I had met guys online before but had never flirted with them ever.

I got so pissed off and drunk one night after an argument with my husband and started talking more to an online friend, lets call him Jim.
It first started with voice chat, I couldn't believe it, his voice was incredibly sexy, I'd never talked to him before.
Eventually we saw each other on webcam and we were both attracted to what we saw. By this time, I knew I was heading for trouble.

We've probably shared a hundred photos of each other by now. I didn't expect to start liking him though. I wasn't looking for anything, I was just pissed off and this happened.


I told my husband about Jim out of anger one night, and stop talking to Jim every now and then because I wanted to work on my marriage. Our marriage didn't get any better.


My husband and I are now separated because we used to argue all the time, and I told Jim about a month after I moved out. But now my husband is trying to win me back, I am so lost and confused. And here I am lying to both of them, telling my husband I am not talking to Jim, and telling Jim I am over my husband.


God I hate this shit. I don't know who to choose. A man I've never met in real life or the man I married who constantly lies to me and god knows if he has been unfaithful.

I didn't ask for this shit to happen. I didn't ask my husband to lie to me, and I didn't know Jim would turn out to be a really nice guy.

I'm worried that if I completely cut my husband out of my life and meet Jim, I fear Jim may turn out to be a total jack ass. That would kill me.

And I'm worried that if I don't meet Jim and stay with my husband, he will lie again and treat me like shit, and I will be miserable.

I just want to cry. I deserve more than this. I don't know what to do.


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By anonymous at 03,Apr,12 20:17

You seem really confused but I think you are really selfish. You want to hold onto the husband as a safety net to see if Jim works out. That is really mixed up and selfish. I suggest you start treating men as people with feelings rather than something you deserve to make you feel good. If you learn to care about others, you will find someone nice, but as long as you are completely shallow and narcissistic you will find similarly unhealthy men. I suggest you invest in therapy to learn some self awareness.


By anonymous at 03,Apr,12 21:08

Dump your shitty husband, if he s been unfaithful he doesnt deserve you even considering going back to him. He deserve better woman ! You lived years with him, be grateful for the good moments but leave. Even if it doesn t work out with jim. So either it will work out with jim, either it doesn t and you ll find someone else but dont stay with your husband just to not be alone.


By anonymous at 03,Apr,12 21:09

YOU desreve better * i meant to say


By anonymous at 03,Apr,12 22:46

Jackass you are just like him. Doing the same shit. If you really love the the guy you wouldn't do it neither would your husband. you both need to find someone you love.


By anonymous at 03,Apr,12 23:02

I say, (in a cheesy way) think with your heart. Your husband can not be trusted, he is a liar and a cheater, has hurt you in the past, and thus history would just repeat itself, leaving you bitter, hurt, betrayed all over. I say take a chance with Jim--if it does not work out, you can always date other people, or focus on some "you" time--a guy does not define you. Hope this helps =).


By anonymous at 04,Apr,12 03:02

You say the problem with your husband is that he lies to you but you know that you are lying to him right now. If there's still love then you need to work on your marriage and your problem with lying to each other. Do you think a relationship with Jim would be any better, given that you are already lying to him


By anonymous at 04,Apr,12 07:39

Give your cheating ass of a hubby a hard smack in the fucking face and a kick in the crouch when you get a chance. Then, get a few empty bottles of liquor and throw em over him until he's all blood. Laugh like crazy pretending you're a total psycho ass and he shouldn't mess with you again. Or else!


By anonymous at 04,Apr,12 13:24

Your already seperated from your husband. So, why in the world you wanna go back with him or be even confuse. It's very simple forget about your x-husband and move on. I think your in the phase of wanting to be a player since you felt betrayed by your husband. If this guy so called Jim seem nice, then go on a date with Jim. If it doesn't work out with Jim then there will other men out there...Enjoy life...... ; )


By anonymous at 04,Apr,12 13:59

If it's true that your husband is flirting with strangers on the internet, then you should not leave him.
You deserve each other, cuz let's face it, both of you flirt with strangers, are whiny bastards who complain and fight about stupid shit (obviously cuz you didn't say that you have monetary , job, or other serious issues other than internet flirting), and fucking liers.
Plz don't waste our time with your shit story, the problem is due to both of you being cumm-sucking douchebags who think with their genitals and are too stuborn to listen to each other.
P.S.: you don't deserve more than this. You deserve your husband. He is your perfect match.Btw hiding ''Jim'' from your husband makes you just as much of a cheating bastard as your husband.


By take a look at it! at 25,Oct,13 15:45

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