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common denominator

Posted by Helper at April 12, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Friendship

It is easy to see here that all these people have things in common - they are kind and help others. I have seen over recent years that there are friends who just take all the time, and only want you to tell you their problems. The second you have a real and genuine problem eg health, they are nowhere to be seen. Some months later, when they think the coast is clear, they reappear, give a cursory allusion to your problem then launch into theirs ad infinitum, even trying to make you feel guilty. I have also found that those people have no other friends and do not have the skills or attributes that you have. Jealousy is at the root of swo many problems these days. It is not worth taking time to analyse what is wrong with you that people don't want to spend time with you - believe me, it's usually jealousy, and it's unlikely there's something wrong with you.Look at them and their lives. May it be easier for you from now on!!!!


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By anonymous at 13,Apr,12 01:00

People here are people craving for attention when they are lost in their own world. They have the rights to say whatever they want, and those who comments are one's with either harder hardships, and there are ones that only think their life sucks but don't know it until they read about it from someone else. For me, I know my life isn't the best, but I don't think it sucks. And as you said, people feels jealousy towards others better life, but no one else life sucks or perfect, someone will have hardship in their life, either not yet, but soon it will come. Life is hard, but it doesn't suck.
PS usually the ones who are trying to help has problems of their selves, sometimes it's help to say it, or type it. (But I'm sure it doesnt suck...)

By anonymous at 13,Apr,12 03:44

well that was a useless post. Good job.

By anonymous at 13,Apr,12 06:07

Get a real prob., dude.
By anonymous at 07,Jun,13 21:54

Everyone has problems, even the happiest people, and they're all real, and all deadly. I'm sorry if you are facing "real problems" but try to understand that this guy needs comfort, and not negative activity

By anonymous at 13,Apr,12 16:22

Well that wasn't a waste of my time at all...

By Kaylynn at 05,May,13 20:57

You have shed a ray of sunhsine into the forum. Thanks!

By Denisha at 07,May,13 03:22

Unbeleivalbe how well-written and informative this was.

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