I am a 24 years old chinese girl. So please forgive my english mistakes. I am a forgetful girl, and I cannot bear stress. I always feel very bad when I have to do something I don't like. And the more I hate it, the more I don't want to do it, which make me hate it more. Then I start to eat stuff to make myself happy enough to start to do this thing. But eventually I am kind of fat but this stuff still haven't done. It is a bad cycle, and I want to get rid of it. I have many things to think about, my family, my friends and my single condition. In china, if you are over 23 but still single, your parents start to be anxious, they worry that you cannot get the right one to get married in time. Of course, I am a forgetful girl. I will forget all my suffering after I finish my job. I only can feel my bad emotion when I read my diary. I know that I am too sensitive, I am too nervous. People who are younger than me or who are older than me can led a wonderful life, as long as they satisfy about their current life. That is the reason why I always feel bad. I am too young, and I have parents to take care. And the money is not enough forever. Never mind, I just come here to complain. Nothing else. And I will survive eventually. Because I still have parents who are over 50, and they need me very much. They don't care how much I can earn, they only want me to be happy and live for a long time. That is enough for them, but not for me. | |
Pardon me if I seem misinformed by advice here, but don't the men in China outnumber the women by a sizable difference? From what little I know, I thought that families in China were forced to have one child? Of course, I know nothing other than what I read or see in movies and documentaries...
I was watching a documentary about girls being abandoned in China, because parents forced to have one baby, opted to have a boy instead of a girl? With this statistic, I would think your pickings of eligible men would be significant? Predictions were that it would become such a problem- the shortage of women, that gang violence would rise- angry, testosterone filled, men- who can't find a wife or girlfriend??? I would love to know if this is true? In anycase, sorry to get off track here- but you sound like you have ANXIETY? There is medication for that here in the U.S., but I am not sure how readily available it is in your country? Are you allowed to take medication for emotional issues or is it illegal? Not sure, but hang in there- Your parents are obviously very proud of you and they have their values in the right place- because no, money can not buy you happiness-
They are very wise-
Live long- be happy
Cursed
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