I'm thirty one living with my parents ever since. No job .depresion I don't remember the lastday I felt happy or good ab out my self. Eighty perrcent of my face is covered with deep acne scars iheve a really big nose big ears I don't have many friends whenever I do go I'm the one sitting by himself or in the darkest place so that people cafn't look at my face I do try to hide with some cream s but as soon as it gets hot or I start to sweat it begins to drip down and seems like I'm wearing some kind of make up I had been laught at so many times sometimes I wonder how woild it feel to be normal lookin its strange I've. Never ever shared how I feel with anyone hope ican relate to other people so I don't. Feel so alone thank u everyone |
The guy is an ugly beast. Deal with it.
Are you getting treatment for your depression? I hope you are. It really can and does help if you get diagnosed properly.
Its akso possible that you have body dysmorphia, where you think you are too ugly to live a happy life. There is treatment for this that will enable you to see your imperfections in a more realistic light and learn to live with them instead of living in fear of them.
I know people who have deep acne scars and they dont allow it to dictate their lives. I must admit that I feel slightly sad for them having to deal with the scarring and I am softer and kinder towards them as a result.
I dont know how things work in your country but in the UK there is treatment for these scars. Its very expensive laser treatment but its extremely effective. If you have no income then you may be elligble to get your treatment free as its having a deep psycholigical impact on your life.
Im not saying you should change yourself but there are treatments out there should you decide to investigate.
It is also possible in my country to have ear surgery, again available free if it is causing emotional problems.
Regarding your nose!!!! Adrien Brody is one of the sexiest men alive and so is Dustin Hoffman!!! Take away their big noses and they would look totally different.
A lot of women, like me prefer a man who is has some slightly off features. I like man with big noses!!! I also like men with slightly crooked teeth. Pretty men are a turn off to me so you see there are lots of women who will think you are good looking.Just have a look on the net at how many beautiful women choose men with irregular features or who are sometimes downright ugly!!!
Theres an English actor I have fancied for years, Nathaniel Parker. I could nt believe it when I saw a picture of him with his wife.I know its a bit shallow of me but she has the biggest nose I have ever seen on a woman. Its obvious that he adores her and she obviously didnt let her huge conk hold her back from a successful acting career and bagging herself a gorgeous man!!!!
Im not taking any of your problems lightly. I just want to show you that it is possible to overcome your fears by surgery or acceptance.
Regarding the make up you wear. Dont wear it in the heat, just use a tiny bit in the winter and then maybe you can learn to face the world without it. People wont care. None of us are perfect.
There are lots of people who feel as you do. Just another tip for you, there is a professional product that you can buy over the net. Its silicone based and it actually fills in the acne scars to make them look more even and like normal skin.
Its waterproof and it wont melt in the heat.
It lasts all day. A work colleage uses it and hes asian and it works wonderfully for him.
Hes planning to have laser treatment but in the meantime this product relieves some of his self consciousness.
So you see there are various ways you can alleviate some of your anxieties.
Dont be too shy to talk to your doctor. A lot of blokes think its cissy to talk about their insecurities but the treatments are there to help you. Its your doctors job to help you make decisions about the route you want to take.
Dont hesitate. Its your life and your doctor will have met people like you many times before.
If you would like to email me its ziggysue@fsmail.net
Let me know how you get on. Please think about the things Ive said. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world.
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