My ex wife is selfish. I was married for 20 years. She cheated on me 16 yrs into the marriage. I struggled to keep the family (2 kids) together. Did everything she ask, but was not exactly the way she wanted it done. I needed a car, cause her van transmission broke down. So, she cashed in her stock from work and brought a patio. My paycheck paid all the bills, Her paycheck was for savings and extra expense. She offered me, our house if I agreed to a divorce. After I said Yes, she wanted the house for her and the kids, to help keep stability in our kids life.
We got separated in October 2011. Got divorced in Dec 2011. I feel so alone. She never felt alone. She got married in April 20012. Now she is selling the house, so her new husband can feel comfortable living in a rural area 30 mins away.
I got screwed because I trusted her. | |
There are very few people out there that can honestly say that they have a decent relationship with their EX. After all, that is why they are an X! However, what is done is done. I know exactly the anger that you feel at being taken advantage of. Many people can relate to your feelings and frustration. The only advice that I can give you is to move forward. It's human nature to want to dwell on our past, mistakes that were made, blame, ect... It's a temporary defense mechanism. However, just because you had a terrible experience with one person, doesn't mean that all woman are like your X. May I suggest seeing a therapist? They can get you back on track, so you're not obsessing about your X. Trust me, been there. Almost had a restraining order placed on my ass, because I just couldn't let go of my anger! It sucks honey, I know. You feel betrayed and you were taken advantage of in many ways. But don't let this divorce and all the baggage that went with it consume you- because it will. Make an appointment to see someone. They will give you the tools you'll need to get over your unpleasant past, so you can have your life back. You have children with this woman, so you will have to see her and her new husband now and then. The best revenge you can have is to be happy, it will drive them crazy.
Good luck-
We're all rootin for yah!
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so who's going to be that new somebody...a dude
anyway i recomend online dating
even if you don't find someone to be serious with you still meet a lot of people and talking with others will make you feel better
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Consider yourself lucky that you can start a new life without a woman.
Whatever you do, DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH ANYMORE WOMEN! And, for your own sake, DO NOT HAVE ANYMORE KIDS!
Do you want ulcers upon ulcers? Consider yourself lucky. You are now free to pursue your own interests. Avoid that woman AT ALL COSTS. She will probably bring you down again if you let her.
Our house is for sale. This is a no fault state, so no matter the deceit, lies and betrayal she gets half the equity in the house (substantial) and alimony in perpetuity. It does suck. But poster above who suggested to move on is right on the money. My soon to be ex says she loves the guy and he wants to marry her so in that way alimony would not get paid. I am trying to accept the things I can not change and change the things I can. Something better is coming.
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