I had my life all together until I met a woman and fell in love. I through away my education, talent and potential for what I thought was love. Several kids latter I found out that she use to be a "escort" and I am so far in debt and trapped with these kids (their mine..blood test confirmed), I cant leave. I hate my job and the woman I am married to. | |
However, at this point, the real question is: is she true to you now? If she is still "escorting", then she is not into the relationship as she should/could be. Ultimately, if you feel that it bothers you that much, you need to let her go. Just make sure you put all the cards on the table and try to make the transition as easy and cost effective as possible.
I leave the kids for last because while they are an integral part of your life, you need to be happy. There is visitation and other ways to make time and be there for them. You need to be at your best to be there for them.
Who knows? Maybe confronting the situation will get it out in the open.
Good luck.
you loved her didn't you?
if she still escort behind your back than it is an issue.
work it out with her.
you got kids for god sake
DO NOT BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN WILL BRING YOU HAPPINESS.
Do not seek happiness from a woman.
The so-called American dream is a wife, house with a white picket fence, kids, and a dog. Do any of you wonder why this is the "American Dream"? Whose dream? Your dream? Did you come up with that dream or did somebody implant it in your brain? Hmmmmm. Maybe women want men to think that it is something to aim for. Why would they want men to aim for it? Possibly because it serves them...and not men at all?
Once you follow this dream, you will find out how ulcer-ridden your life will become. Wives and kids are constant work. Why do you think the phrase "ball and chain" exists.
Men are happiest when they are completely free to pursue their own interests. Unfortunately, when they get tangled up with won, the happiness quickly evaporates. It never fails. Beware the "Global Coven of Womanhood".
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