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what to do..

Posted by J R at April 29, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Juvenile problems  Relationship

okay so im 18 and a virgin, ive never had a girlfriend or anything witch is pathetic atleast in my opinion but whatever. ive got this girl im good friends with and she sends me ridiculous mixed signals, one day she will hang out with me until midnight just talking to me in my car about random ass shit (alot of times sexual making me think shes a slut) and openly talks about sex to me like oh i love giving blow jobs and swallowing yet sometimes when i put my hand on her lap or say something suggestive she seems awkward and uneasy. i just can't fucking tell if she wants more then friendship out of me and i don't want to try making a move as we have been friends for over a year. she also talks to me about another guy she is currently hanging out with at like 3am and it is just obvious she is fucking him yet she says she is more into fuckbuddys right now so i feel like she might want me. i dont even know if i could take being just a fuckbuddy for her anyway i kind of want more but am just soo confused. what should i do because i also dont want to fuck up our current friendship.


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By anonymous at 29,Apr,12 20:13

Don't worry you will screw the whole thing up. You're 18, that's enough of a reason.

By mercy at 29,Apr,12 20:44

years !Good day old chap, may the blessings of jack the ripper embelish your thoughts. Maybe you should find an English midget slag from Westfordshire to make your days better. It isnt that bad being a virgin. I was a virgin until I was 9 years old. I had realations with a feral cat straight from her magesty. You are a brown trout, laid upon the doorstep of the primeminister. I hope that while you masturbate that your twig falls off. GOD SAVE THE QUEEN
By anonymous at 29,Apr,12 21:08

are you actually English or just a bit of a prick?
By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 07:30

Hey leave him alone... He the best poster on here
By mercy at 30,Apr,12 07:41

I do say, many thanks go out to you for your defense! Good show old chap, May the Queen herself thank you!As for the bloke above you, may you burn in hades. I am english AND a prick!!! may 1000 horny midgets attack you anally! GOD SAVE THE QUEEN
By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 23:36

By anonymous at 02,May,12 00:24 Fold Up


By anonymous at 29,Apr,12 21:01

Mate, so what if you're 18 and a virgin. Stop wasting your time with the "slut of your dreams" and go get out there to someone who's worthwhile.. All of these times that your out til midnight just chatting to her means other people are missing their opportunity to get to know you. Get a grip.

By anonymous at 29,Apr,12 22:30

Someone else already said it, it's no big deal being 18 and a virgin. It's a lot more common than you think. As for your girl who's a friend, she might be interested in you otherwise why would she be spending all this time with you? Or she might just be playing with you because she thinks you don't have guts to make a move to get her to bed. What should you do? Depends if you're willing to risk losing her as a friend. If you tell her you want be her boyfriend and she doesn't accept, your relationship could become awkward or strained. But then again it might become something much better. There's a risk, but there might be a nice reward as well. Just my .02.

By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 01:54

Dude your just a male friend she talks to that's it she doesn't want you and those aren't signals believe me Ive been there and it sounds to me like she is just a slut don't waste you time find another lady.

By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 04:27


By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 07:32

Smash that vagina and move on, women are bat shit in sane, I think it has something to do with not having a cock
By mercy at 30,Apr,12 07:47

Good day bloke, I think that you have never even seen a vagina. Oh i stand corrected, you have, your fathers!!! GOD SAVE THE QUEEN
By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 08:13

Enjoy your crooked teeth and having a police state camera up your arse at every highstreet camera while you run from the Pakis.

By jossy at 30,Apr,12 07:59

As you know with my complaint to Doctor MESSIAH, Yates and I were in the dumps. It was definitely over. I had cheated on her and she just could not forgive me and I didn't blame her. But I still wanted her back and knew what a mistake I had made. I can't thank the enough for the thoughtful recommendations and for the spell casting cancelling guidance through this. She says she has forgiven me and we are talking a lot about getting back together. She is taking it slow just as the messiah said she would but I don't mind in the least because she is talking to me and says she still loves me - something she said she could never do again. It took a lot of work to get to this point but I wouldn't change anything about it. I hope someday I can meet this temple to thank for this good help in person.
By anonymous at 02,May,12 00:25

shut up

By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 08:12

I was 18 and a virgin. Didn't loose it until I was 69 and happily in the nursing home. Those old birds fuck like there is no tomorrow. Well, maybe their isn't for them. ha ha

By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 20:54

thats why the bible says"if a whore gets in thy chariot and dosnt give thee thy poon, it must be taken by force" amen.

By J R at 30,Apr,12 21:36

haha fuck it everyone says its not that bad il just give it a try and if she turns me down whatever i don't need the hoe in my life anyway

By Psychologist PhD at 01,May,12 16:52

Focus on being grateful -- and I don't mean this like a lecturing parent. I say this as a PROVEN THERAPY STRATEGY for souls in pain.

When you feel gratitude, you can't feel anything bad -- it's one of the most pure, happy emotions humans have.

Try this. This sounds really silly, but it WORKS!

Go on you tube and look up Refugee Camps. Watch those videos. In a blink, your troubles are put into perspective.

Then take a moment and just be grateful for everything you have that those pour souls do not. If you focus only on gratitude, watch what happens!

Being grateful is a choice.

No matter what is happening, you can find something to be grateful about. That is the TRUE POWER you have. That is the SECRET TO HAPPINESS.

Try this. Get yourself super grateful, let that feeling take you over -- then go be with people. See what happens. Try this with strangers. See what happens.

Remember, people are like mirrors, they REFLECT what you are projecting. So if you hate yourself, they will pick up that vibe and bounce it back to you. If you project gratitude, that pure beautiful universal emotion will bounce back at you!

Always remember for anything in life -- spend 20% of your energy on the problem, and 80% of your energy on the solution. Stick to this and watch what happens to your life.

Always ask yourself -- "What is my next action?" Your brain will search for a solution.

Your brain's job is to answer your questions. So if you ask your brain a rhetorical question like "Why me?!" The only answer will be "You are worthless, you are cursed!" -- because that was the answer you were looking for -- yes?

WHAT YOU FOCUS ON IS YOUR REALITY. Your brain has no idea what is real or imagined. So if you if you get hurt once but think about it 1,000 times, your brain suffers it 1,000 times.

I'll prove it to you. Think of the juiciest LEMON you've ever seen. You slice the lemon. It oozes juice. You take the lemon slice and you BITE into it.

What happened? Did you salivate? Because you IMAGINED a lemon in your brain, your BODY REACTED as if it were real. So there is your proof that what you imagine is real.

So thinking about this? If you imagine something horrible happening to you, wouldn't your body think it's real? If you relived a painful situation, wouldn't your body think it's happening again?

Now... if you relive a WONDERFUL MEMORY, wouldn't your mind think you're having another beautiful moment?

So now that you know this, and you still find yourself dwelling on the bad emotions -- it's evidence that you are conditioned to suffering -- because now you have a choice.

This means you have to do some soul searching.

It's time to investigate, face your issues, whatever they maybe. Focusing on wanting friendships, relationships, problems, etc.. is your unconscious need for a distraction from dealing with your repressed pain. People you are with feel the vibe, it's like a radio signal that you can't hide.

It's likely deep seeded self-esteem issues (we all have them).

Be honest with yourself. Read books, or articles online, if seeking therapy is too scary. Self help books on self-esteem.

Focus on the solution, don't dwell on the problem. Burning your energy on the problem will only lead to addiction to depression.

Deal with yourself first, and your true energy will attract the life, the people, the relationship, the things, the love you deserve.


By anonymous at 01,May,12 21:56

Grow the fuck up

By anonymous at 02,May,12 01:23

Why don't YOU shut the FUCK UP....


my name is missu and I am happy that help me bring my boyfriend back, my boyfriend has started loving me again and he has promise to get married to me and have kids with me, he said he love me and he will never go close to any woman accept me and promise to get married to me next week.

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