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Posted by anonymous at April 29, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Attitude  Relationship

Ever since I started balding at 18 women are afraid of me. They fidget awkwardly around me as they move to cover up their boobs with whatever is available (I never even look down there), and refuse to make eye contact with me unless absolutely required. I've always been socially awkward and never have had a girlfriend, but now I can see that any chance at that is OOOOver. I could at least land a date and talk for 5 minutes before being rejected while on that date, but now I can't even get a girl to look in my general direction. I'm stuck rail thin and bald like steve jobs because my body doesn't properly absorb nutrients. When you're bald and rail thin at my age, it becomes the centerpiece of conversation wherever you go. There's nothing more humiliating than having to laugh off people's jokes about some of the most depressing parts of your life. The cancer patient jokes are the worst.

I've lost my job and can't even muster up the courage to do the things I enjoy like I used to. I used to be able to muster up the courage to at least enjoy life living alone, but after 28 years of just suffering I can't do it anymore. I can't kill myself because that would wreck the people I love, and I can't live happy. I am stuck in an endless no mans land. What the hell am I here for?


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By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 10:24

dont ever think about taking ur life, ur sooo lucky to have it. My partner is shorter than me and been bald for years. Its how u see yourself buddy that counts, Thru circumstance i have had to be on my own in another country from him for year and a half, and loneliness sucks big time, im not going to tell you differently. Your 28 now, its a different kettle of fish than when u were 18 and every zit counted!! Seriously look around, i bet u see a lot of guys the same way. At 28 us girls are more about making us laugh.Take the bull by the horns and do something for yourself. Talk to ur doc, ask about self confidence courses, u know those ones where they make u leap from a tall pole!! lol. at least u will be with a group of ppl with the same issue. U know ppl love u, u said it. Forget about girls for the moment and do things that make u happy and laugh, the rest will come, u just have to put urself out there . :)
By anonymous at 30,Apr,12 10:28

PS, i have a big butt, always had a big butt, no matter how thin i am. Fat bottom girls by queen has always been the best song!! Damn if i could have marketed it like Kim Kardashian, id be soo rich!!!!!!!! lm big ao

By anonymous at 01,May,12 00:05

Hey it will get better. Looks aren't everything. And anyone who tells you they are should be in your life in the first place. Personally I always look for friends or significant others based on their personality. Yes, it sounds cliche but it really is important. Much more so than looks. I do not think you sound creepy at all, you sound very nice and maybe just misunderstood. I know you'll meet someone who will appreciate and love you deeply.
Best wishes

By anonymous at 01,May,12 21:52

You got it easy, try having a deformed face which requires surgery, but being too broke to afford it. Word of advice - take steroids and get some bitches
By anonymous at 02,May,12 03:42

FUCK YOU. steroids and bitches might as well tell him to change who he is completely to score women.

By anonymous at 02,May,12 03:40

Dude same age and thin as well not bald fortunately, but you will find a woman. Word of advice though women around our age tend to want these chauvinist deush bag macho types who can provide for them. You have to be around the intellectual types, but even some of them are amazingly superficial. Just be confident like Robert Deniro in Taxi Driver assert yourself some women like the socially awkward quirky guy it has worked for me. Tell them to fuck off when they make jokes about you or if you are good with words tell them they are using derogatory comments in order to gratify their small genitalia, but be sly about it.

By anonymous at 02,May,12 18:11

I gots more hair on my balls than you do on your whole body.

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