I was in a 6.5 year relationship and we have a son, we broke up over a year ago and he has been trying ever since to get me back, I had met the most amazing guy in that time and wanted to share my life with him. my ex has made it almost impossible to do this,in January my ex asked me to marry him and I said no, we had gone to dinner with our son, since he asked if Mommy & Daddy can have dinner together. I didn't think anything of it nor did it mean anything to me, but I wasn't honest with my current bf, he now knows and is extremely upset with me and he has every right, but I am scared that this may end the relationship, how can I fix this | |
Your X is taking advantage of you. He knows the child between you, is a weak spot- and it isn't cool that he is using the kid. In anycase, having a heart to heart with your current beau and putting some "boundries" between you and your X would be a good start. Your boyfriend feels insecure because you didn't tell him about your X's covert advances and you can't blame him. BUT, it certainly is no ground to break up. You haven't "cheated" on him. And you don't plan to by the sounds of it, so just talk to him (your boyfriend). Stop communication with your X. Don't give him any opportunity to talk to you alone, or manipulate you in any way. Love sucks. I am sorry that there is a child involved, because it sounds like your X is already using him/her to win you back. That's not fair.
Good luck-
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